Hello, I’ve got a little story to tell you about a guy.
The story began about a year ago. I met a guy who I was really into, the problem was he was stuck in a toxic relationship. He showed interest in me before breaking up. I was a bit turned off because he was hitting on me while he had a girlfriend. After a while they broke up naturally. We kept in touch for a couple of months until he confessed his feelings to me. However at the time I was dating someone else for the next year, so I stopped talking to him because I thought it might upset my boyfriend.
As i know from common friends he was hurt by me dating another man but after a couple of months he moved on and found a new girlfriend. 5 months later I broke up with my boyfriend and I found myself more comfortable to talk to him when we were hanging out with mutual friends. He started texting me almost everyday and invited me over with his friends. I thought that he just like my company and didn’t want anything more because he wasn’t doing anything suspicious (other than that he never mentions his relationship in front of me)
It turns out that he didn’t know I’ve broke up.. when it happened to tell him he was surprised and stated that things are getting complicated now because he had feelings for me. However he didn’t stop texting and tries to find time to hang out with me..
I cannot say that i don’t like his attention (I was the first to like him anyway), but I dont want to be the third wheel.. it’s not fair for none of us.
What do you guys advise me to do?