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My self confidence is not as it used to be/affecting my bf

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  • October 2, 2018 at 9:32 am #228613
    Anonymous
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    Dear Flower P:

    The fear of losing your boyfriend as a result of showing less excitement in the bedroom as well as any pressure on his part that you do show excitement accomplishes the opposite. A person does not get motivated to be spontaneously loving when scared. Or pressured.

    Did you explain to him what is going on, the way you explained it here? If so, how did he respond, what did he say to you and did he change anything in his behavior?

    anita

    October 2, 2018 at 9:39 am #228617
    Inky
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    Hi Flower P,

    I’m assuming you eat right, and we know you exercise. Yes, there had been a terrible amount of stress, but…

    Now might be a good time to go see your doctor and get blood work done, and check your hormones, etc.

    Just to remove all doubt that it’s from a physical source.

    Then find a good therapist/pastor/person to talk to.

    Best,

    Inky

    • This reply was modified 6 years, 11 months ago by Inky.
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