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    Anonymous
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    Dear patelh:

    Can you and your husband and child move for away from his family? If your husband will cooperate with such a move, that will be a very good idea. Far, far away.

    Your husband chose to marry you against his mother’s/family’s wishes. He should be consistent with his original choice and choose you and his child over his parents/ family of origin. I suppose you had discussion with him on the matter. How did he respond/ what did he say? Did he offer any solutions?

    anita

    #225061
    Prash
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    Dear patelh,

    With a 9 month baby taking up predominantly most of your attention and presumably most of your sleep time, I would suggest now is not the time to take any major decisions. Your issues seem to be of a long standing nature and require your full attention before you can take any major step.

    Take things slowly one day at a time.

    Take care

    #226141
    Anonymous
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    My husband is agreeable to the idea of moving away, not very far but just outside of London as I have a job in the city – he usually agrees to the idea when things are tough and family conflict has taken place which happens once or twice a year. Then the next day he wants to move house in the same area we are in, so the decision is not there but we are planning to move house at some point. My own mother meddles in our marriage and causes conflict so moving away is the best solution, i dont see any other. both our sets of parents live 15 minutes from us and its been hard and both are difficult to get on with. with a baby in mind, im ready to take the step to move away and start new. my husbands only loss is seeing his close friends nearby and for me, i do not have many local to me so this can work, i dont see any other way. as long as we move just outside of london and can get into london via train then i dont see the problem.

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