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whats really going on with my boyfriend and he's gay friend?

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  • August 23, 2018 at 1:54 pm #222789
    Mark
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    sunnycloud,

    I would worry that your boyfriend 1) does not respect and trust you enough to take in your concerns and 2) that he is not discerning enough, i.e. blinded that his gay friend is duplicitous such as lying about your non-existent cheating and dating his friend.

    I would be concerned about his friend ruining your relationship.  I really don’t have any ideas about how to deal with this except to talk honestly with your bf, perhaps even show him your post and what I said about his trust and respect of you and how shady his gay friend is.

    Mark

     

    August 24, 2018 at 11:14 am #222885
    Anonymous
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    Dear sunnycloud:

    It may be as simple as this: your boyfriend’s friend is infatuated with your boyfriend and your boyfriend likes (as so many of us do) when anther person “always pays for everything, dinner, uber, all the drink if the bar..”, especially the drinks in the bar, for one who likes to drink.

    And that uber to take him safely home after a night of drinking.

    If the situation is as simple as this, then your boyfriend is not l likely to listen to what his friend says about you, nor does he care what he says.

    Are you concerned that the friend will take advantage (or did) of your boyfriend, sexually,  when your boyfriend is drunk?

    anita

     

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