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  • August 13, 2018 at 9:54 am #221325
    Anonymous
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    Dear Jay:

    You should do what is better for you and your kids. Not what is better for him. As a mother your number one responsibility is to do what is best for your children. And it is best for your children to have a calm mother who is sensible and can take care of them.

    Your boyfriend is important too, his well being is important as well, but your job is to attend to the well being of your children before attending to  his well being.

    So my answer to what you should do is to  stay where you are because you wrote: “I see better opportunities since I moved and I only been gone a day”. So stay where you see better opportunities and explore those opportunities.

    If you want to share what those opportunities are, and how they will make the lives of your children and you better (and anything else), please do. I would like to read more from you and reply.

    anita

    August 13, 2018 at 11:25 pm #221383
    Prash
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    Dear Jay,

    This is probably a time for you to step back and see what is in this relationship for you.

    What is not working is the ways in which you have described how you feel about the situation

    • he was barely there he was lazy
    • I didn’t feel like he helped enough
    • We got into a couple physical fights.
    • He don’t trust me he forever think I’m messing around I don’t trust him
    • But overtime I’ve been tired of not doing anything no communication sitting in silence.
    • I asked him to pay the rent bill he swore up and down he forgotten
    • I’m tired of the same ol in the city I moved from I’m ready for new things

    You are in two minds because of what had gone well and the feelings you still have for him

    • Over all he is a good guy he helps with the kids.
    • He keeps me laughing the sex is still perfect.
    • I love him we been through EVERYTHING together. Everything.
    • I hate to see him cry and beg but for some reason I can’t cry I don’t feel anything

    When you are coming out of a disturbing environment new opportunities seem alluring but take your time and do what is best for you.

    Take care

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