Dear Julie:

I noticed before, during our communication in your previous thread, that you believe that because you introduced your best male friend to your best female friend, that it gives you some rights over the relationship between the two of them. It is not true. I will explain:

when you introduce person him to her (believing both people are decent people), what follows is that maybe he will benefit her. But maybe he will hurt her. You don’t know the future.

If the second scenario happens and  he hurts her, you don’t want to be held responsible for it, to be blamed for it, do you? For as long as to the best of your knowledge both were decent people, it will not be your fault.

If the first scenario happens, and he benefits her, you don’t have a right to determine their relationship. They may appreciate the introduction, may be grateful to you, but you have no rights in determining their relationship.

If you consider my suggestion here it may relieve some of your distress in the situation.

anita