Dear Julie:

I just noticed that you posted on hour other thread four days ago, I didn’t see that post, otherwise I would have replied to you then. Regarding this thread, you wrote that you were fired from this job with the unfair, angry boss, weren’t you?

If you weren’t fired and asking what to do, I would say quit as soon as you are able, find a new job, give your notice and quit. You wrote that you “have to reach (your) parents’ standards”, I wonder what are those standards.

Maybe it is a pressure that you can eliminate from your life, trying to reach their standards. Maybe your life will be much easier if you don’t try to reach their standards, and instead determine your own and reach your standards, not theirs.

anita

Dear Julie,

You live on your own and have rent to pay. So by all means I think hold on to the job that you have till you are in sights of a new one.

Have you thought of the job that you are going to enjoy. I think you should give it a good thought with all the details defined so that you are able to correctly identify what you need to move to. You have been in your current job for three years, maybe looking at what you liked about the current job could give you a perspective for the next one.

I liked your quote in the reply in another post. “your perception of me is a reflection of you” 🙂 Useful