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Thinking about an Ex after 4 years, need advice.

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  • February 18, 2018 at 8:00 am #193155
    Inky
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    Hi Matt,

    I think you did the right thing. You two were in transition. It wouldn’t have worked out anyway, most likely. High school and college romances seldom do.

    What you are experiencing is nostalgia. Of course her parents loved seeing you. I genuinely love all my daughter’s old boyfriends and prom dates on the very rare chance I see them. Parents get nostalgic too!

    She got nostalgic with the jacket ploy. One does not send several messages and happen to stop by where you are to return a jacket. Then she’s upset to find you blocked her two/three years ago. Meaning she never even checked on your social media since then!

    My advice is to unblock and leave it alone.

    Good Luck,

    Inky

    February 19, 2018 at 10:03 am #193275
    Scarlett
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    Hi Matt,

    I’m sorry you are going through this. I would contact her for sure!  You seem like a great guy and have a lot going for you.  You are  both older now.  She may not know why she was blocked.  Tell her that it was because it was too painful and you wanted to move on.(I was in similar situation and it meant a lot to me to hear that is why my ex blocked me.)

    I would meet her for lunch and you both could get some closure or get back together.

     

    Good luck,

    Emory

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