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  • November 30, 2017 at 1:44 pm #180147
    Peter
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    Sometimes Love requires that a relationship end. Trust your intuition, you know what needs to happen.

    If you end the relationship you should stop all contact if only to create some space for you to work on yourself and what you really want from a relationship.  I recommend the book ‘How to be an adult in Relationships’.

    December 1, 2017 at 5:10 am #180193
    Inky
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    Hi riley,

    Your quasi-BF expecting you to be faithful to him when you aren’t technically going out is a little over the top. Friends with Benefits doesn’t mean you get to be a sexual place-holder for him, pining for him, waiting for the phone to ring. Of course you will have other partners, romances and relationships!

    Sure, you kicked him when he snored in Japan, but the next time he asks to see your phone, show him! Brian’s texting you, Cyrus is your other lover, Sven is calling you and Zack is taking you out to dinner!

    It’s time to forgive yourself and cut it off with this boy.

    Best,

    Inky

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    December 1, 2017 at 6:21 am #180197
    Anonymous
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    Dear  riley:

    If I understand correctly, you didn’t want  to have a relationship with him to begin with, but you did anyway, conflicted. On one hand you wanted the closeness, on the other hand you didn’t. The part  of you that did not want him in your life kicked him in his sleep, talked down to him and broke up with him multiple times.

    I think that you are conflicted about who you are, doubting your own … goodness, so you can’t see  him for who he is and you can’t see the relationship for what it is.

    You wrote: “if it weren’t for him I wouldn’t  have  realized how self-destructive I  was  being  to my  body, mind, and spirit”- how have you been, in your life so far, self destructive?

    anita

     

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