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  • July 3, 2017 at 4:34 am #156100
    Inky
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    Hi Azouz,

    I can tell English may not be your first language, but the first thing that stuck out to me was that you used the word “dominant” several times. Here’s something to think about: Every woman is a Free Agent, her own Divine Being who belongs to No One. Sure, they may be in a relationship with you, but “You are only committed until you’re not”. That’s why she can turn around and date people the minute you break up. She is a person in her own right, with free will, inner thoughts, desires and dreams that have nothing to do with you.

    So, Azouz, cast her loose. Let her go out with her cousin. Find someone new. Someone you respect who respects you so there is no “dominant” one.

    Best,

    Inky

    July 3, 2017 at 6:57 am #156124
    Azouz
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    Dominance is a character, not a choice.
    While i have tried so much to bring a change, i always met failure.
    I have clearly mentioned the fact that despite my struggles to let her loose, she still cheated, meaning she’s not responsible herself, and all the times she came back asking for forgiveness are a clear sign that she’s lost and while she hurts me beyond repair, she still asks for us back once the “actions” are done. As if it is a necessity for her, and i would like to know why.
    I am asking how to move on from someone who loves me but still causes so much hurt.
    I find it difficult to move on while she could one day come back, desperate for another try.

    I never gave up on her. She only crossed boundaries and as i confront her with it, i find no other way but to break up with her, which drives her to all that’s told above. And yet that doesn’t spare me from her. She always returns and threatens me.

    How do i stop expecting it? Since it happened several times by now.

     

     

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