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  • June 5, 2017 at 4:33 am #151946
    Inky
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    Hi LoveandLive,

    This is a repeat of grad school! The confession. The moving separate ways. etc.

    The guy would have to be a dunderhead not to know that you like him. And I suspect he might feel the same way.

    However, I would leave it alone. Let him go abroad. He’s had plenty of chances to take it up a level. Why is it all on you?

    Plan something fabulous for yourself the day or week he leaves.

    Best,

    Inky

    June 5, 2017 at 6:39 am #151958
    Yuri
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    I agree with Inky that this guy probably knows how you feel. He might even feel the same way but maybe he’s not ready to be in a relationship with you since he’s going abroad. But this is just my opinion. I don’t think we should be too sure while assuming something. Anyways, I do think that you should confess for your sake. Maybe he won’t agree to be in a relationship with you and you might be a bit hurt but believe me, the feeling of taking the courage to express your feelings to the person you like is great. Whether your feelings are returned or not, it always feels like a burden has been taken off your chest. We often lose chances just to protect ourselves from pain but where’s the fun in living that way? Well, whatever you decide to do, just know you’re going to be okay. Good luck!

    • This reply was modified 7 years, 10 months ago by Yuri.
    • This reply was modified 7 years, 10 months ago by Yuri.
    June 5, 2017 at 7:49 am #151972
    Anonymous
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    Dear LoveAndLive:

    There are two questions here, as I see it:

    1) What are his feelings for you (loves me- loves me not…)?

    2) Do you want to know (to know- or not to know…)?

    You wrote: “He might just say that he doesn’t see me that way. I’m so confused”.  Personally, I very much do not like being confused. So I would ask him #1, definitely. Once I get a clear and honest answer from him, I will no longer be confused. I welcome clarity anytime I can get it!

    If the two of you continued to be co-workers, that would be a consideration in whether to ask him about his feelings, as such may create discomfort in the work environment. But since he is leaving, that is not a factor.

    anita

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