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  • #122973
    Leigh
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    Sorry if this doesn’t make sense just saying what I’m thinking and feeling.ive never realy fitted in ive had the same group of mates since I was a kid most of them have partners familys etc.i am single and realy hate that I am I have had partners in the past but not many I have been realy happy and the ones I did like really like didn’t last long seems I like someone then they end it.i had a woman the mother to my daughter but we grew apart.since then I’ve had 2 relationships One with a woman that I was realy in to but she cheated on me and kicked me to the curb after 3 months which were 3 good months was very painful not just because I liked her but because I knew I would be alone again.the other one was with a woman I met at pub slept with her and stayed with her for a while because was better then being alone again.since then I’ve been single wishing I could have what others find so easy.why I’m writing this is becausy emotions are so painful seeingg someone I like is painful because I probarly or defintly have no chance seeing a couple happy seems unfair and is extremely painful.everyone says you got to love yourself or how do you expect someone to love you which I hate because doesn’t help at all I like every other aspect of my life only thing missing is someone special to share all the normal things couples share.

    #122974
    Anonymous
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    Dear lostsoul86:

    I will definitely not tell you to love yourself or how do you expect someone to love you etc.

    I am telling you that I do see that you communicated very well the facts that you feel much pain, that you feel alone and lonely and that you wish you had a good, loving relationship with a woman.

    anita

    #123013
    Inky
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    Hi lostsoul86,

    I would put myself on dating sites and have my friends and family set me up on dates. I would also frequent where the type of person I’m looking for would be. (Example for me: Bookstores, yes. Bars, no. Church, yes. Clubs, no.)

    Statistically you will not only find someone to love but you will also get married. Believe it!

    There is a quote, “What you are seeking is also seeking you.” In your case the quote is true. There are plenty of women out there actively looking for a nice guy.

    Find each other.

    Enjoy the Quest!

    Inky

    #123062
    VJ
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    Dear lostsoul86,

    “everyone says you got to love yourself or how do you expect someone to love you which I hate because doesn’t help at all”

    Keep a watch on this thread that I created for the same reason you mentioned above.

    How to find love?

    Also please feel free to share any inputs, if you have.

    ~VJ

    • This reply was modified 8 years ago by VJ.
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