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  • September 27, 2016 at 5:01 am #116391
    Inky
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    Hi nikkilove921,

    Every emotional abuse he’s ever given you he can (could and would!) give to your child!

    No matter how you feel, remember that feelings are just that ~ FEELINGS! You know what is right and wrong.

    Since he is abusively wrong, you need to do what’s right.

    Wrap that baby up in a protective cocoon. Cut him off from all social media and tell your friends and family to do the same. When the baby is born, HE can take the initiative and ask to see him/her. Then make sure he is surrounded by numerous family members when he is there (at your mom’s house). (Abuse hates an audience).

    No more crying, visiting, calling, texting or pleading. Don’t even give him the courtesy of officially breaking up with him.

    You are so done.

    Inky

    • This reply was modified 8 years, 6 months ago by Inky.
    September 27, 2016 at 9:47 am #116415
    Anonymous
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    Dear nikkilove921:

    His promises made you feel safe at the time when you were anxious about your struggle to pay your education in that city you loved. You felt alone there, away from people you were familiar with, family and friends.

    His promises then, for consistent, ever lasting love, drew you to him. There was safety there, or so you felt. And so, you developed a strong emotional attachment to him. We become attached to those we imagine mean safety for us.

    And you discovered that he does not mean Safety for you. He dropped you alone at night, pregnant and barefoot on the street. He told you things that mean you can not trust him or rely on him.

    This is very unfortunate, that he betrayed you, that he promised Safety and delivered Danger instead.

    And now that you know that it is Danger that he offers to you and to your baby, what do you do?

    anita

    September 27, 2016 at 11:26 pm #116538
    XenopusTex
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    I see we have a spam bot on the loose.

    There are very few prince charmings. The reality is that he isn’t going to offer you or your child much that is beneficial. For the sake of yourself and your child, it is time to move on.

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