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  • May 25, 2016 at 8:09 pm #105646
    Anonymous
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    Dear thatellengirl:

    If I was you, having read your post, paying attention to your values and feelings about Guy 1 and 2, I would choose “be upfront with Guy 1”- let the light shine on the mystery- tell it like it is and ask him to tell you how it is for him. He may be a good entertainer, making you laugh, but I think more than a good laugh you need the facts. So get the facts.

    Guy 2 of course sounds lovely and compatible. Once you dissolve the mystery with Guy 1, you will be in a better place to figure out how to proceed.

    What do you think?

    Please do post again.

    anita

    May 26, 2016 at 4:48 am #105664
    Inky
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    Hi thatellengirl,

    My thoughts in no particular order:

    1. Men in the entertainment industry are highly pursued AND less likely to hold certain Judeo-Christian values (i.e. chastity)

    2. Guy One is in his thirties now ~ and he is still acting like a happy go lucky bachelor. If he’s not pursuing you now, it probably means that he’s never had to pursue anyone ~ and may not even think of it that way!

    3. It’s Ok to dump someone for “no good reason”. If you’re not feeling it with Guy #2, is it possible that…

    4. …You could meet a Guy #3??

    The Universe is chock fully of guys for you! Go out and find some more!

    Blessings,

    Inky

    May 26, 2016 at 11:31 am #105703
    Nicholas Rutkowski
    Participant

    Hi thatellengirl,

    I have a few questions for you.
    1.Do you feel you are chasing Guy 1 and being chased by Guy 2?
    2. How much energy are you putting into both men and which one seems the most exhausting?
    3. Which one could you see spending the next few months with?

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