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  • May 16, 2016 at 6:25 am #104650
    Inky
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    Hi almostlost,

    I would think of the relationship as “on hold”. If you are single when he can afford a divorce and when his son is an adult ~ one or two decades later ~ look him up!

    But he is right, you have to move forward with your life. Strive to be happy with someone else.

    I’ve known people in these conditions who honestly can’t get a divorce and it never ends well ~ unless you are willing to have a family with him and forgo marriage/”marriage” entirely.

    Best,

    Inky

    May 16, 2016 at 9:19 am #104665
    Anonymous
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    Dear almostlost:

    Your ex boyfriend sounds like a decent man. Seems like he values his son and his position as his son’s father. I value it too and believe it should be his first priority to be a good father and present in his son’s life.

    On top of it, he sounds like a caring individual toward you, caring about how you will be affected by his life difficulties.

    If I was you, I wouldn’t try to change his mind: if I had a part in causing a separation between him and his son, I wouldn’t be able to endure the guilt and he may be very resentful of you for encouraging such a separation.

    If I was you, I would move on and search for a man as decent as this guy.

    anita

    May 16, 2016 at 5:04 pm #104733
    Sheryl
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    Thank you for your advice. I know what to do now 🙂

    May 16, 2016 at 8:32 pm #104749
    Anonymous
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    You are welcome, almostlost. Post anytime!
    anita

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