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  • April 23, 2016 at 7:05 pm #102564
    Anonymous
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    Dear anneew:

    I am trying to understand your situation:

    You are currently in one country (country 1) where you and your husband immigrated to. You are now with your oldest child while your husband is in another country, his home country (Country 2) with your two youngest children, preparing a home for the two of you and the three children to live there, in Country 2. Am I correct so far?

    You are considering leaving him. This would mean that you will move to your home country (Country 3)? Will you be moving in with your parents? And will you be taking the three children with you? Will your husband let you take his two biological children (the younger two that are with him now)?

    anita

    April 24, 2016 at 2:12 am #102578
    AnneeW
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    Hello Anita,
    Yes you got it all right. Only that I don’t want to go back to my home country. I only have my mother who herself lives somewhere else. That’s why I am thinking to just continue going to my husbands place and then decide what to do there. You see he’s a good guy but our marriage is one sided which sadens me… Thank you

    April 24, 2016 at 2:14 am #102579
    AnneeW
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    Also about the children: yes he would not mind if their with me.

    April 24, 2016 at 7:54 am #102590
    Anonymous
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    Dear anneew:

    So you are considering moving to Country 2 and living with your three children alone, while your husband lives in Country 2 as well, separately. And he is okay with this arrangement. As long as the home where your children live is a place of calm and safety for them, however it is accomplished is the right way. If it is calmer with him living elsewhere and participating in their lives that way, then that would be the right way to pursue.

    Please do post again with thoughts, feelings, difficulties, anything.

    anita

    April 24, 2016 at 1:57 pm #102622
    AnneeW
    Participant

    Thanks again Anita for your input.
    I guess what you wrote sounds good 😉
    He said we will try to find a solution for these ongoing issues once their back in about 2 weeks. In the meantime I will try to keep busy with what I enjoy and not think about it too much. I know I will be just fine, no matter the outcome.

    Thank you again for your help!
    Ann

    April 24, 2016 at 4:26 pm #102626
    Anonymous
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    Dear Ann:

    You are welcome. I hope you post again in about two weeks regarding his suggested solutions, and your own.

    anita

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