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    Rebecca
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    I just wanted to share… I work as a CNA in a psychiatric hospital and I hate it. But it’s not because of my patients, I love my patients. I hate it because of the attitude, beliefs, and work ethic of the majority of the people I work with. Not only are the people I work with lazy, they are just so selfish! And just downright cruel to the patients sometimes. I am a hard worker, and I really try to treat the patients like they are actual people, or I try to imagine how I would want to be treated in the situation. I feel like a minority where I work. I would have thought going into healthcare I would be around similar people who are interested in making a difference, and who genuinely care about others. But I work with a bunch of selfish people who are the majority and who encourage others to follow suit. So if you want to fit in, you have to be cold and rude to the patients. It’s safe to say I don’t fit in.. but I’m just having trouble feeling any compassion or empathy for my co-workers. I feel sad for them mostly. I pity them. But I am trying to channel compassion and it is so hard!!!!

    #126421
    Anonymous
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    Dear Rebecca:

    I heard of this before, repeatedly. What a shame! I hope you keep extending your compassion to the patients, not to your co workers. maybe, just maybe your co workers will be moved just a bit by watching you.

    anita

    #126424
    Rebecca
    Participant

    Haha, I hear you Anita. Mental health has such a long way to go… I just don’t know how else to be at peace other than to have some compassion for my co-workers. Otherwise I am going to be pissed off every day.

    #126448
    greenshade
    Participant

    Hey Rebecca!

    Thank you for genuinely caring for your patients and treating them with humanity. I work in health care settings and have also seen this callous attitude time after time. It is very difficult to not get caught up in the negativity. My one suggestion would be to find sources of inspiration (ie people behaving thoughtfully and compassionately) outside of your work environment to connect with in some way. It is easier to believe in something (in your case compassion) when you see others committing to it also.
    Also if you need to find some compassion for your coworkers,maybe consider that you don’t know why they don’t have compassion: maybe they don’t know how to set boundaries and therefore are wary or maybe they were unfortunate enough to face negative consequences for their compassion and now avoid going there.

    M

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