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  • January 31, 2017 at 7:25 pm #126498
    Anonymous
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    Dear Jay-me:

    Reads to me like you are looking for problems where there are none- relax best you can. You had your share of pain and disappointments, so this relationship being good is not “too good to be true”-

    Too good to be true would be if you had no problems in the past and you will have no problems in the future. You did and you will, so life is not and will not be too-good-to-be-true. Enjoy what good you have now and look forward to more.

    Post here anytime- better than “jinx(ing) this one.”

    anita

    January 31, 2017 at 10:16 pm #126512
    Jay-me
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    Dear Anita
    Thank you for your response, I think I had endured lot of pain in the past, that I already worry about the pain that is yet to come. I feel like I am somehow going to ruin things. When I show my excitement it looks like I am clinging to him, when I kind of ignore him I looks like I dont care. I somehow wish there was a manual that can guide me to be the best girlfriend, to relax and not rush things and just be in a relaxed partnership as he is relaxed. I do realise that I am looking for problems where there are non, I just worry too much!

    February 1, 2017 at 8:05 am #126535
    Anonymous
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    Dear Jay-me:

    Did you tell him about you worrying too much, that you want to be the best girlfriend, relax and not rush things but have difficulties doing so? Maybe he can help you, being relaxed himself. Without exhausting him, you can get helped by him. Help each other as there are things he needs help from you!

    Help and guide each other, be each other’s manual, via ongoing communication. Practice that EAR communicating with him, standing for Empathy, Assertiveness, Respect and help each other.

    anita

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