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  • June 15, 2022 at 4:16 pm #402504
    Anonymous
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    Dear richard:

    “since she left, she always text me about our son (this is ok for me), and sometimes add some inside joke… for example, 6 months ago, she asked me if I want another son from her… also she told me several times that she dreamed… about me crying… that I was getting married, she started as a joke, but then told me to never get married, can anyone tell me why this woman is acting insane? Also I recently hear that she have a new partner, and that she probably have around 1 year with him” –

    – reads to me that she wants you to want her; that she wants to keep you as an option, just in case she needs to get back with you, if things turn out that way. Do you think so?

    anita

    June 16, 2022 at 9:19 am #402517
    richard
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    thats what it feels like, but she was the one dumping me, she was the one that destroyed all hope, i cant get back with her because i have dignity, she also blocked all my family that was once her family, so in these 2 years, all she have done, is talk nice to me, otherwise she have done anything positive..

    June 16, 2022 at 9:29 am #402518
    Anonymous
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    Dear richard:

    I am not saying that you should pursue your ex-wife, nor am I saying that she wants you to pursue her. According to my understanding, based on the little that you shared, I suspect that she wants to keep you on the slow burner, so to speak- just in case sometime in the future she will need you to do something for her.

    “all she has done is talk nice to me, otherwise she hasn’t done anything positive” – it is easy to talk. It takes very little time and even less effort to utter words. But words can be powerful when they fuel a lonely heart. Be careful about how far her emotional manipulation (her words here and there) can take you!

    anita

    June 17, 2022 at 3:56 am #402545
    HoneyBlossom
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    I think your ex-wife sounds like a selfish person who wants to keep as many options open for herself that she can.  Can you get some professional support to be able to get on with your life.  I think that would be difficult while she keeps messing with your head by saying those things.

     

    It sounds to me as though you would be better to have some firm boundaries in place, and for you to mostly just be communicating with her about your son.

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