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  • July 17, 2017 at 11:11 am #158532
    Anonymous
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    Dear Hayley:

    I don’t know why he can’t tell you what is bothering him. But the fact that he was rude to you and then blocked you is a very clear indication that he is not your friend or boyfriend. I think it is time to move on from this relationship, place it in your past, and aim at friends and a possible future boyfriend who is honest and open, willing to tell you what he thinks/ feels so that you are not confused. Confusion is not a good thing in a relationship, not when it can be avoided by honest, open communication.

    anita

    July 17, 2017 at 12:29 pm #158544
    Hayley
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    Thank you for the advice. I do agree and understand what your are saying. Some of my friends are telling me to not reach out to him at all or at least for a while. But I have so many unanswered questions part of me is hopeful to text him and ask him why but some people are telling me not to. I just want to know why he did it and what I have done. As much as I have been told I didn’t deserve him I want to be hopeful because I am still attached to what we once were and part of me still cares for him. So I don’t know if I should text him and ask or forget it

    July 17, 2017 at 12:37 pm #158548
    Anonymous
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    Dear Hayley:

    It could be that you didn’t do anything, really (“I just want to know.. what I have done”).

    If I read you correctly, you already asked him and he didn’t answer you, blocking you instead. If you asked repeatedly and he didn’t answer, better stop asking. Especially after he blocked you. Blocking your access to him includes blocking you from asking him questions, isn’t it.

    anita

    July 17, 2017 at 12:55 pm #158560
    Hayley
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    At this rate I guess I will just leave him alone thank you

    July 17, 2017 at 1:23 pm #158584
    Anonymous
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    You are welcome, Hayley.

    anita

    July 18, 2017 at 6:41 am #158764
    Eliana
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    Hi Hayley,

    I don’t have much too add, but many times, when I interact with men via “Snapchat” “Facebook” “We chat” etc..it usually does not work out. I usually do not communicate with men by “texting” either because texting alot and social media can cause alot of problems with communication, or lack of it. That is why I no longer have profiles on Social Media. I once met a man on Facebook and tended to have “jealousy” because he would get angry and block me, or I would block him, or he would “friend” a woman and so on..too much unnecessary drama. So from now on, try to communicate with men by person only or phone. Try to stay away from “texting” unless urgent and social media because it causes alot of problems in relationships.

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