I have this coworker who I really admire. She’s beautiful, kind, and incredible gentle in spirit. She’s several years older than me, in her early 30’s – and she’s totally my idol. She seems so content in her skin and in her life. She has hobbies, and an amazing dog, and is almost totally fulfilled.
I admire her commitment to herself/health/and emotional and spiritual wellbeing, her commitment to sending off positive vibes, and her commitment to living the life she wants to live regardless if the right guy comes along or not.
We’re totally different people, but when I talk to her, I think to myself: “I want to be like that”.