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  • August 11, 2013 at 7:55 pm #40219
    Carrie
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    Gosh I don’t have much sage advice here… We girls tend to over think this sort of thing! I say don’t think about it anymore…move on and let go. It sounds like you made great progress with healing (I can’t wait to get where you are!) so focus on that progress and keep moving forward!!! I am cheering for you! xo

    August 11, 2013 at 8:07 pm #40221
    Matt
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    E,

    Just a trigger. Your response was perhaps a bit snarky of a boundary setting, but still, you did set one. Perhaps next time you could be more clear. “Hi. I don’t like your texts anymore, I’m moving on.” Or whatever else comes to mind… the Buddhist “do no harm” comes to my heart in such circumstances. Perhaps the snarky tone caused some suffering? Aggression is great at generating self doubt in a loving heart.

    Just keep breathing, it will pass. 🙂 You don’t sound anything like square one to me, maybe square six or seven.

    With warmth,
    Matt

    August 11, 2013 at 8:10 pm #40222
    E
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    Thanks Matt

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