Hey. I’m the kind of person who thinks small details do matter. In fact most arguments i have with my boyfriend are because of insignificant things that for me, are important.

I dont know what caused the break up but sometimes when you are mad or sad everything seems ten times bigger, especially the bad things. Maybe he was like me and little things were very important to him.

Anyways i Hope you’re okay. Maybe you need to find someone with the same values as you. If you know you didnt do anything wrong dont blame yourself, or him. Maybe you were too different.

Hi Bella,

It seems I might be going through a similar situation. His break up with me was abrupt. During the relationship, he did take a lot of things that I thought were not as serious, very seriously. I think I failed to realize our differences. And I’m realizing too late. How are you handling the break up? Any tips you can pass on? Did you speak to him after the break up? That’s where I’m at now, wondering if I should reach out.

Good luck

~L