So sometimes when you have been married for quite some time you strike a friendship up, then in time it changes, maybe you flirt and they flirt back, maybe you share a fantasy, BUT that deep inner calm that peace is on edge it reminds you that for YOU it’s wrong!  Now some coupes swing, some have different partners and that’s ok as long as that inner peace doesn’t become unsettled.  I have an ongoing situation with a so called straight guy who now want’s a 3some with me and a woman!  Enough I thought today so sent a text saying no more texts, no more calls!  BUT he keeps sending texts asking why? What’s wrong? I stay strong, I delete each text that arrives, and ignore any calls, why, because I am still in love with my husband, always have been always will be.  Saint! Noooo by a long shot, but for now I choose him the one I married.  I gave a website to the straight guy called bi dates and suggested he have fun on there!  So for now my inner peace is at peace again.  For every action there is a consequence sometimes good sometimes bad, the main thing is to learn and grow. x Blessings xx