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  • #392460
    samy
    Participant

    I was with you until you brought up India. The propaganda that persists to equate the horrendous crime of rape to false accusations. Nobody “blindly” believes women here. They hardly ever believe us. Victim blaming, ostracizing. You know what. You don’t deserve a response from me. I will leave this here, since I typed it out but shame on you. May the victims of false accusations find peace. But to say that that means people are blindly believing women. Unbelievable. Nothing has come off the changes in law you brought up. You would know that if you dared to live here.

    #392462
    Sean
    Participant

    People “are” blindly believing women, and as the female lawyer points out in the video, she overheard the sister of woman in question actually saying the law was on her side, and to take her ex-partner for all that he was worth!

    He later committed suicide.

    Sorry, but you are seeing things in ‘black and white’ terms.

    Yes, there certainly was a case in the past where women were not taken seriously in India for instance, and even treat atrociously at times, but now the law is weighted in their favour from what I have heard, and how the female lawyer in the video spoke of the situation.

    #392463
    Sean
    Participant

    People “are” often blindly believing women, and as the female lawyer points out in the video, she overheard the sister of woman in question actually saying the law was on her side, and to take her ex-partner for all that he was worth!

    He later committed suicide.

    Sorry, but you are seeing things in ‘black and white’ terms.

    Yes, there certainly was a case in the past where women were not taken seriously in India for instance, and even treat atrociously at times, but now the law is weighted in their favour from what I have heard, and how the female lawyer in the video spoke of the situation.

    #392475
    Anonymous
    Guest

    Dear Sean:

    You shared that 43 years ago, when you were 8, you started to develop sexually. You wrote: “The girls at school, well one way or another they find out you are sexually developed, and many were really sexually predatorial towards me” – how did the girls in school find out that you were sexually developed?

    anita

     

    #392512
    Sean
    Participant

    Not sure how this board works?

    Anyhow… so I’m replying to Anita.

    Hardly the point.

    But to state the obvious, if you’re 6ft tall at 11/12 and shaving… then it becomes pretty obvious.

    Apart from the fact people talk. You are the focus of the other boys attention when you’re getting a shower because you are considerably more sexually developed.

    And there were times when I was would be described physically assaulted by girls.

    I do feel in the just ‘2’ responses I’ve had, that people are trying to poke holes in what I am saying, so that they can stick to their own comfortable narrative that it is men who are the sexual predators and abusive with it.

    I just don’t believe that it is true, and have had ‘enough experiences’ to realise that women… and I’m being diplomatic can be just as poor in their behaviour.

    If people ‘really’ have spiritual beliefs, then they should be more open minded about this. We all have, fathers, brothers, and sons… and the rest. I’ve always thought for sexual equality, and for equal rights, and many a time stood up for women I admired or who I did not see being treat fairly.

    So, why is it, I don’t see this being reciprocated upon in these responses?

    #392514
    Anonymous
    Guest

    Dear Sean:

    I am very well aware that there are plenty of women who abuse their children, and many abuse the men in their lives. I am sorry for any and all incidents of abuse that you have suffered as a child and onward.

    anita

    #392515
    Sean
    Participant

    And apologies if I came over a little abrupt, but I am just so tired of the ‘huge double standards.’

    Women who can be manipulative, and so aggressive sexually or in other ways that they can take away a man’s home.

    That men, such as myself are left feeling we cannot treat women with the due respect we would wish to do, and criticise them if we disagree with their behaviour, as we would do a man, for fear of getting into serious difficulties… even involving the police.

    It ‘should’ be better than this… those women just a 100 years ago, were not forced fed in prisons ‘screaming…’ a number dying or perhaps worse – resulting in lasting physical harm – so that women, can behave just as poorly as men have in the past!

    There has to be more…?

    #392516
    Anonymous
    Guest

    Dear Sean:

    Apologies accepted. I am all for gender equality and justice for all people, and I am well aware that there are many boys and men who have been and are victimized by women. What I am getting from your posts though, is that there is significantly more going on in your mind and heart than this valid social and political issue of gender and sexual inequality. I believe that this significantly more needs to be addressed in the context of private psychotherapy, not in the context of a public forum such as this. I therefore feel uncomfortable communicating with you further, and this is my last post to you. I am only one member here; maybe other members will be willing to communicate with you further. Goodbye Sean and I wish you well.

    anita

    #392518
    Tommy
    Participant

    Anita is right. This forum can not help such conditions. And probably professional assistance would be a better help. Wish you all the best. Please be well.

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