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    coolcorriander
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    Hi everyone

    I hope that you can give some of advice or word of encourangement.

    I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years. We had a ‘cooling’ period for about 2 months in between because he couldnt tell me why we cant live together. I felt that it was the right thing to do.

    When we were apart, I felt that the need of moving in together subside and that the most important thing is that we together and have a quality time together. I said to my self that I need to focusing on the now instead of what’s going to happen in the future.

    Since we get back together he seems reluctant to put me back in to his life, as in he doesnt introduce me with his friends and not taking me to his parents anymore. This hurts me alot. I told him about this and cut long story short, I said to him that he needs to sort this out otherwise we cant be together

    I told him that being ‘shoved’ away from his life hurts and I want to be involve more. Granted he is a private person, but I do think he’s taking this far.

    I really love him and he loves me very much too. He’s always there for me and very generous. I felt bad because maybe I was overlooking all of the good things that he does for me. But somehow, my heart say ‘No, I’m not!’

    He’s not giving me what I need. It’s like when you said to someone I’m thirsty and what they give you is anything else but water.

    I dont want to lose him but I’m hurting. We’re going to talk again tonight and I hope you can help me.

    I feel lost…

    #66266
    Tyler Sant
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    Hello there….
    i’m no where near of an expert in this, since me and the girl i love are also separated. But it only seems wrong to me to expect and need things out of someone. To hope that a person is gonna fill some hole in us eventually weights in a relantioship. That’s i i did and we are not together……so don’t do that to yourself, please. You have to draw a line and know your limits. What your limit? That needs to be clear, and beyound that point, it’s time to move on and be complete without someone else. Ask him if he still has fears of you two in the future. What did you guys talked about last night?
    Hope it helps….keep telling us.

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