I have tried so hard to be in a relationship, online dating, through family and friends, uni, work colleagues, etc. But still I am single Indian-female of 31. I am presentable, witty, smart and funny. I am working, do have hobbies I pursue. But I can’t seem to find a partner to be in a relationship.

My friends said I have high standards, I don’t even know what standards are. I have never looked for tall, dark, rich, handsome guys, out of mills and boons romances. I always looked and wanted a friend in my partner, where it would be easy to talk and relate to.

I always meet someone with an open mind and heart, but get turned down by there past baggages and high expectations.

My friends have drifted away, because of their family commitments and some feel threatened with me around their partners.

I have visited counselors to find out whether I am scared of intimacy, or not mentally or physically prepared, or lacking emotionally. But they said I am fine, healthy and smart.

So, why am I single, if I am right in the head and heart? How could I find out what is wrong with me?