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  • April 14, 2017 at 11:32 am #145091
    Anonymous
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    Dear carry:

    It was definitely a wise decision to end all contact with this girl, and it is a wise decision to continue to do so. All you can do is to learn from this experience. When you meet another girl (or any person) who attacks you with put downs, negative criticism, end your contact with that person immediately.

    As you experienced, when you accepted the initial put downs, she escalated to stronger verbal abuse.

    You were taught to show respect to women: fine. So instead of reciprocating a woman’s verbal abuse of you (put downs, making fun of your clothes, driving, etc.), simply end the contact as soon as possible. For example, while driving to see her, when she was on the phone negatively criticizing you, “as soon as possible” would have been to turn around and drive home.

    In your title you asked: “Was it a mistake..?” By “it” you mean ending contact with her, correct? Are you thinking then that it might have been a mistake to end contact with her?

    anita

    April 14, 2017 at 2:16 pm #145111
    Arthur
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    Man listen up, there is absolutely nothing wrong with you.

    As a matter of fact, from what I have read, it is the girl that is facing a deep inferiority complex. And to cover her inner voice which keeps reminding her ‘I am not good enough’, she shows herself as high and mighty, unfortunately for you, she had to make you look down for her too feel good.

    Its a very good decision to end it, especially when you have been groomed in a way to respect women like that. She is like a broken glass, interacting with her will only get you hurt.

    Take my advice to heart, it is good to be sweet, but don’t be too sweet like honey or people will swallow you. And don’t be too bitter, or people will spit you out.

    When someone says something bad about you, you answer them back confidently. Your answer doesn’t have to be a counter insult, or a boast about yourself but it has to portray an air of confidence that is etched within your bones saying ‘You can believe in whatever you believe in, I know who I am, and I love it and you know you love it’

    April 17, 2017 at 4:32 am #145407
    Anyone
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    It was certainly a wise decision… Move on in life, there are many good people around…

     

    Stay Blessed!

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