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    Yue
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    Hi Jessa,

    In a lot of ways, you have already answered your own question in that you know you will regret it if you don’t ask and there is absolutely nothing to be gained for not asking (while asking will present the opportunity for employment). Yes, it’s true that he may say no and if that’s the answer, it will be heart breaking and soul rendering but this pain is still far less than the disappointment you have in yourself for not asking. As an adult, do you admire someone who tried, failed but kept trying or someone who gives up before trying? Be the person you admire and you will build your confidence no matter what the outcome is for this encounter.

    Oh and if it helps, we are usually more critical of ourselves than anyone else in the world. So you might think that he’s seen you at your worst but it’s highly likely that it’s not as bad as you thought.

    #72216
    trusttheflow
    Participant

    If you dont ask him…. You will be stuck with asking yourself why you didnt…. For the rest of your life. Sounds like a big deal. Even IF he says no make sure he knows how to contact you in the future. Im sure he is wise beyond imagination. Let it be known you ARE interested but dont forget that his answer is NOT equivelant to how you should view yourself. You know your worth. Being rejected by him will probably hurt BUT, WHO CARES!?! Go for it! You know youve got to take the leap, just do it! WHo cares what the result is. Just be brave! It’s ok. :)”Its better to try and fail, then to never have tried at all” We are all learning! Take care!

    #72244
    losp33d
    Participant

    You don’t get what you don’t ask for.

    Nor will this be the last opportunity you have in life.

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