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  • #128517
    Anonymous
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    Dear chiclyme:

    I concur with the part of you that thinks you should let go and move on.

    Your heart, you wrote, is holding on to “the promises and memories”-

    But if the maker of the promises is not holding on to his made promises, those promises are shattered, even if your heart keeps holding on to them. And your memories- remember everything, not just the feel-good times, and you will feel better about moving on.

    * Regarding your suicide threat, well, it was the wrong move, but don’t let it stop you for doing the RIGHT thing, which is still, to keep this relationship where it belongs, in the past.

    anita

    #128933
    Enigma
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    I think it is best the relationship ends. It is just not the easy or comfortable option.

    Thank you for confirming what my heart knows.

    #129077
    Anonymous
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    You are welcome, chiclyme.
    anita

    #129127
    XenopusTex
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    parasite- something that survives based on taking things from its host. Also known as the bipedal male organism you seemed to have been dating.

    Most of us have all probably been in periods of economic pain. However, it seems like this particular parasite decided that you would be a good meal ticket and he wouldn’t have to worry about his own affairs. Parasites are to be removed when and where possible.

    Suicide threats are a seriously bad idea. I can tell you from my line of work, that such comments can have drastic and long-term consequences far beyond whatever problem was supposedly occurring at the time. Depending on how they are taken, you can wind up with multiple members of law enforcement showing up at your location with a court order directing them to take you into protective custody and transfer you to the nearest psychiatric ward for evaluation and observation, or in the alternative, to hold you in jail for 24 hours until a bed opens up. A few days of being in the psych ward later, you get into court where the decision is made if you are threat to yourself or others. Such a process can have lasting effects on the ability to purchase firearms and/or ammunition, among other things.

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