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    Lucie
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    Hi dear i read about your situation. frankly i know its hard to forget someone you did care for and loved. But just answer me one thing. Would you like to spend your life just because you loved him to this extent and he has cheated you?? What about your self respect?

    First thing, If he really cared he would have never gone to another girl. he told you that he thought you already broke up and he got another girl so quickly? Or the girl was already here when you both were into relationship?

    Secondly, you paid his expenses and agreed for joint account. Babe he was just using you. But I want you to realise it before its too late before you start to sicken because of this guy that you’ve got your life which is yours he can’t manipulate you.

    Third thing, dont rush to be into another relationship because at this stage you ll find many branches to hold but you ll not be able to judge the right one.

    So choose to be happy dear and please give you some time do your favourite things. Right ow focus on your career, try to keep you busy. Make yourself realise the fact that you’re beautiful person and one day there ll be a guy made for you who ll keep you happy. as everything happens for the best. So babe get ready to feel wonderful things to happen in your life. Cheers ad keep smiling. 🙂

    #80263
    Anonymous
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    Oh girl,

    I am so, SO sorry.

    I went through something incredibly similar within the last few months.

    Please know that none of this is about you… And none of this is about her. It’s all about him because people with no character (people who cheat) only give a damn about their own selves!!!! He’s a user and a loser.

    I know it’s Way easier said than done, but there is really no way to make sense of nonsense. After months, I’m STILL trying to make sense of my loser ex’s actions. But I learned that if you just can’t understand why somebody would do something so terrible, it just means that you’re just no that kind of person, and that’s a damn good thing!!!

    His logic is null and void. Because somebody who truly cares and really knows how to love (the correct and healthy way) doesn’t do this to somebody else… They just don’t. Maybe he loves in his own sick way – and because he believes that he “loves”… But it’s certainly not how you *deserve* to be loved.

    Two things that somebody told me that I love to repeat: 1) The best is yet to come. 2) You can’t polish a turd!

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