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  • February 16, 2017 at 8:15 pm #127957
    Anonymous
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    Dear jamieee:

    My advice: tell him how you feel, make it short, not going on and on about it, just say something like “I developed romantic feelings for you, wanting you and I to be girlfriend-boyfriend” and then ask: “I was wondering if you have any such feelings for me?

    Better find out as soon as possible and save yourself a lot of “what-if” time, a lot of emotional turmoil, as well as a trip to the alps (if he is not interested in a bf-gf relationship with you).

    anita

    February 17, 2017 at 12:03 am #127977
    jj2013
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    Hi Jamieee,

    Tough situation to say the least! Since you realllly like him and and know how he feel about u, what I would do is go around the topic and ask indirectly. For example, say, “So, I never asked, do you have a girlfriend?” Or say that u have a friend who likes a guy but is nervous to tell him so you want his opinion on what he thinks she should do. Make him think a little, then he could start talking and maybe connects the dots and figureout that you are he “girl.”

    It is best to be honest but as long as you come clean that the friend is “really nervous,” I’m sure he would understand and you guys would have a great story to tell others one day 🙂

    All the best!

    • This reply was modified 8 years, 2 months ago by jj2013.
    February 24, 2017 at 8:22 pm #129283
    jamieee
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    Hi anita,

    Thank you for the comment. I had been struggling for a week now and today I finally confessed my feelings to him. It turns out that he likes me 🙂 I think sometimes we just have to get very painfully honest with ourselves.I am just so glad I did it!

    February 24, 2017 at 8:26 pm #129285
    jamieee
    Participant

    Hi jj2013,

    Thank you for your comment. Yes I now have a great story to tell other 🙂 After I confessed my love to him today, his response was really spontaneous and told me he likes me. Actually I asked him 2 months ago if he has a girlfriend and I think he kinda got the hint but just never took the first move. Anyways, thank you for your kind advice.

    February 25, 2017 at 7:06 pm #129433
    Anonymous
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    Dear jamieee:

    I missed your reply until this evening. You are welcome, and glad you told him how you feel and that he likes you too. How exciting. Hope you post again, anytime.

    anita

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