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August 8, 2013 at 8:58 pm #40026
Matt
ParticipantLeah,
What I saw is someone who had three victories in a fight, while her opponent only had one. Anyone can punch and kick another, but it is something quite different and far more remarkable to stand back up. Its in the standing, not the winning, that we find our courage and tenacity. Well done!
With warmth,
MattAugust 9, 2013 at 9:24 am #40053Leah
ParticipantThank you very much, Matt.
August 9, 2013 at 12:46 pm #40067maitri2all
ParticipantAnthony Robbins talks about something called “State Management” .. remembering everything about a time when you were successful.. when you were at your very best…
He has helped many athletes and performershttps://www.youtube.com/results?q=anthony+robbins+state+management
all three victories Matt mentioned .. you can remember something in you in between each bell that motivated you into the next one
when you remember these you can bring them all together at once and and then you will have a ton of power
I used to hate all fighting sports until I saw the humility and camaraderie they showed each other after the fights..
Bloodiest fight of the night and after the battle they are all hugs and cheering each other on.. something special in that… for certain..
Congrats on finding what helps you
August 9, 2013 at 1:25 pm #40070Leah
ParticipantThank you for sharing the video and thank you for the support!
November 16, 2013 at 9:15 am #45388River Christian
ParticipantHi Leah,
First. You should be commended. It is one of the toughest and bravest things to even attempt what you’re doing. I agree with what Matt said. I have been training in martial arts since I was 4 years old. I have seen a lot of things. My opinion is that maybe your sparring partner is going too hard on you. Her skills may be to advanced for you at the moment. You should ask for a partner who is about your skill level or a little better. Sparring someone too advanced will kill your confidence. It would be like playing tennis against Venus Williams. You won’t learn anything and end up feeling frustrated. Take your time and go slowly.
December 13, 2013 at 9:34 am #46689Samuel Gentoku McCree
ParticipantThe first step to overcoming fear is admitting that it’s there. One method involves imagining you are back in the ring and then feeling your fear arise. Except you don’t add a story you just notice the fear. Feel it in your body and let it be. This way of holding fear can help you let it be what it is.
December 13, 2013 at 9:08 pm #46723Joseph
ParticipantHi Leah,
Damn, Muay Thai, that’s serious stuff. I practiced martial arts for 6 years on and off and spent some time training in BJJ and can tell you, even in a friendly sparring match where I was not getting beat up, just being stuck under someone can feel suffocating and scary.
I would never be cool with getting kicking in the shins or elsewhere with mal intent. You definitely managed something I would never be comfortable doing. I tend to think that in a real match you will do great because you tackle real fear in the sparring match. Many people go into sparring matches with no fear and when you have that your real matches may be different. But if you spar with fear and perform ok, then in a regular match I think you will do as good or better.
Go kick some ass.
January 2, 2014 at 4:34 am #48163Matty
ParticipantIt’s all about your experience. You gotta get back in the ring no matter what. It’s like falling off a horse – they say you should get straight back on.
You’ve learnt everything, you know the moves, you just need to learn how to deal with the pressure of being in the ring. Once you’re comfortable with that then it’ll be easier for you to unleash everything you’ve learnt.
I hope this helps.
I trained in Muay Thai in Thaiand a few years back and my instructor always told me to get back up, throw more kicks, HARDER! Even if my kicks were with no power because of my exhaustion and all I wanted to do was curl up in a ball and stop kicking that pad – You have to push!!I know you posted this in August but you said about fighting in the beginning of 2014 – what’s the latest??
January 21, 2014 at 5:29 pm #49483Leah
ParticipantMuay Thai fight March 22nd 🙂 I am very excited. I appreciate the support and the suggestions.
Training in Thailand?! That is my dream.
January 21, 2014 at 5:30 pm #49484Leah
ParticipantThank you so much! That is helpful!
January 21, 2014 at 5:30 pm #49485Leah
ParticipantThank you, I like that! I will use that. I appreciate it!
January 21, 2014 at 5:31 pm #49486Leah
ParticipantThank you so much. I appreciate that!
March 13, 2014 at 5:56 am #52741nick
Participanthey,
you got all the tools already to get the job done, all the advice is awesome, and will help build up your self-belief more, its all practice makes perfect, mind, body and soul.
im still working on this and i boxed semi-pro over four years ago, as ive been training again this year.
reading these replies, and your story, similar to experiences of my past.
getting beat bad by a more skillful opponent, means a fighter learns only to be beat.
however, you took it, and kept going.
not many do!
get yourself a fight, dive into it, let the world, family, friends, know you are doing it, i guarantee you will do it, and seriously enjoy it too 🙂
and you may also find some people around you, who you may secretly thought were tougher, are not a touch on you, as them people are not getting into a ring, but you are.
all the best.
April 27, 2014 at 3:15 pm #55460bryan g
ParticipantHey Leah,
It is great to see that you have admitted to being fearful, but you can take that fear and use that to your advantage. I have an anxiety disorder, so it was pretty rough when I started mma. It is tough to compete when you have a disorder like I did, but I decided to take control of my life and mind. If fighting again scares you, fight again because avoidance will affect you negatively. You have to continue to work on it, and in time it will heal. It is a process. Check out my new website, revolutionary-learn.com. I promote learning outside of the classroom and awareness for problems like this.
Hope to hear from you soon,
Knock them out !July 14, 2014 at 2:16 pm #60871Jason
Participanti can completely relate as i too am a fighter or just finished fighting. There is no way to overcome the fear except to keep on keeping on. I am no doubt older than you 39 and have been training mma for little over 2 years with no previous fighting experience. I did this as a personal test with no future hopes for the sport. I learned several things. 2 weeks before my first fight got injured and had to have neck surgery. six month later the comeback was difficult but incredibly rewarding. The first thing to remember is you WANT to be getting your ass kicked in the gym! this is how you get better, If you are not it is time to move to another gym.
In my case i fight at heavyweight and was getting the crap kicked out of me by a 155 pounder 4 time golden glove champ. and yes i too was brought to tears when i was knocked out in the gym during a sparring session just as i began to feel like i was making progress. It really shows you how much you have yet to learn.Remember you only cry in those moments when you have left it all on the mat!!! if you were not dedicating 100% to what you were doing you would not be crushed when you fail. this is not a moment of weakness this is a moment to recognise that your are training as hard as you should be.
the next thing to remember is when i was going into my first fight my coaches had more faith in me than i did. they put me against the number 9 ranked amature heavy weight in mn. this was my first fight and to be thrust against a ranked fighter can be intimidating. then i remembered something, I get my ass kicked every day by some of the states best fighters! and i train harder than 90% of the guys in my gym, I gave a full 8 week fight camp with clean eating and close to 20 hours a week of training boxing, jiu jitsu, muay thai, wrestling and cardio. YOUR TRAINING BUILDS YOUR CONFIDENCE! if you have given it everything in the gym you will be nervous but confident in your fight. if you are a week out and are saying man i should have done more sprints, i shouldn’t have eaten so much last week then you know you are not ready! you did not prepare properly and therefor will be scared. if you done everything right at the end of your fight camp “you will have the eye of the tiger” you will be focused, pissy and mean. you will not want to train another minute, you will be itching to get in the cage and bang! nerves are a part of the game, fear is not, if you are fearful you just need more time, this does not mean you are not cut out for it or that you are weak just need more time to hone your skills period, end of story.
this sport is so mental! do a search for mental toughness and practice it every day the difference is winning and losing as i can atest to. I did win my first fight and at age 39 with a record of 1-0 became the 9th ranked heavyweight in my state. I simply would not be denied, i took everything he had and quitting never entered my mind, i was cut, bleeding and one eye closed in an all out war and i made him quit i scored a 2nd round tko against an undefeated fighter. I was literally too tired to tired to celebrate but no way i was quitting (i was right mentally for this fight).
My second fight was different, i had nothing to fight for i had already accomplished everything i wanted in the sport. i was ranked, in better shape and my all around game was better but i only took the fight as i felt i was expected to. like i said this was just for fun for me, a hobbie. I really didn’t want to fight and it showed i lost to strikes on the ground to a far less fighter. i was superior in every way but mentally was not in it i was looking for a way out. yes it is frightening fighting in front of thousands of people but remember you are the one getting in the cage, the people are there to see you win or lose. Mma fans are awesome especially at the amature level. I felt worse about myself not leaving it all in the cage then the fans did. they told me good job even though i lost. YOU ARE NOT DOING IT FOR THEM this is for you. keep working hard, and add the mental preparation into your training. if your afraid this is not telling you to quit it is telling you that you need more time. you will know when you are ready and do not take a fight until you are.
good luck
Jasonp.s. there is no shame in asking your sparring partner to turn it down a notch so you can work. it is equally important to be able to work your movement as it is to prove you can take a punch. your coaches should know this and be monitoring this. at no point is it ok for a superior teammate to hand out a beat down in sparring. your teammates are there to help you. if this is not the case in your gym i would consider another gym.
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