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  • May 19, 2014 at 6:11 pm #56603
    @Jasmine-3
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    Hi Gia

    What is this comment about being Asian and having english with grammatical errors, eh ? This is a huge generalisation and it is not fair on those asians who do have good written english. Think about this as it has a hidden message. Please do not feel that I am taking this personally as I am not :). I see myself as a beautiful earthling having a great human experience but I do know that these words could unnecessarily hurt some who attach their identity to the “labels” that come with this birth.

    Secondly, there is no point crying over split milk. He is gone and let him stay wherever he is happy. You did what was best for you. He did what was good for him. Can we move forward in life and hope that if you two are meant to meet, you both will at some point ?

    When we chase things or people beyond their capacity, they often run away even faster. Let it be and focus on studies. You have a long life ahead of you. Do not fill it up with regrets. Show some kindness to yourself and people around you. Things are not meant to be hard in this life. Why are you making it so difficult for yourself ?

    May you get the courage to do what is best for Gia’s overall well being. Best wishes,

    Jasmine

    May 19, 2014 at 9:49 pm #56617
    Gia
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    So sorry but I don’t really mean to generalize. It’s just that majority of Asians don’t speak or write english very well as some of my american/English classmates commented that Asian’s English is awful but we don’t really take it seriously. We love our own Language anyways.

    But thank you for the advice. I think it helps me. I learned something. So I take this now as a Lesson. It’s too painful and I still cry at night but I let it be as I know that soon it will fade. I acknowledged my mistakes but I promised it will never happen again. I just hope that Fate will give us a chance but if not then I know we’re not meant to be.

    Regrets. I feel like this was all just a Pointless Drama. So it’s enough. Focusing on myself and my study for now. I’m 19 and they’re right. I’m still young.

    May 20, 2014 at 1:57 am #56621
    @Jasmine-3
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    Hi Gia

    You do not have to apologise for anything. I understand that this is what you have been told by your American / English classmates and you do not take it personally, which is great. But this is a form of stereotyping and making you guys feel inferior about your English. This is how people develop low self esteem when they have been told that they are not good enough by someone who feels they are too good. Do not take this as a form of gospel. You are not correct in saying that majority of Asians do not have a great command of English. You will be surprised if you find the stats on this.

    You are perfect the way you are and you can always improve in other areas in which you are not as good. Life is all about evolving personally and helping others to evolve as well.

    Good luck on your journey. You will be fine girl 🙂

    Jasmine

    May 21, 2014 at 6:13 am #56768
    Tracey
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    Well getting of the whole Asian thing and to the most important point being you feel you have lost someone special….
    I would advise you to do everything in you power to find him, but only if you are truly in love with him and you are willing to sit down and think about how the distance between you would work out if you were to rekindle.
    I would say that sometimes things happen in life for a reason and maybe he was not the one for you. You are still very young and have your whole life ahead of you.
    Also I know that you were both friends via facebook etc even though he had a girlfriend that he was in love with. But he then said that he had fell in love with you also! My worry would be that if you were with him could he possible befriend someone else and then fall in love with them!!
    Very complicated situ however it seems also strange that he would just leave uni and move away just because you were not willing to accept him. Maybe a higher being has stepped in for you and made the decision for you for your own wellbeing.

    Chin up and remember there are plenty more nice young guys out there. 🙂

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