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  • February 16, 2017 at 10:32 am #127863
    Lynn
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    I’m sorry that you are hurting. It sounds to me that the real reason he doesn’t want to pursue getting back together with you is because he’s met someone else. If someone truly wants to be with you, they will (no excuses). It may not feel like it now, but you will be okay. I’ve had my fair share of heartbreak in life. None of us are immune to it.
    I suggest concentrating on your studies, focus on the things that bring you joy in life, exercise, and eat as healthy as possible. It may take time, but focusing on being your best self is the best cure for heartbreak.

    February 16, 2017 at 10:39 am #127865
    Anonymous
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    Dear mouse:

    On August 7, 2016, you wrote about the relationship with this man: “Looking back in hindsight our relationship wasn’t amazing and I know I was miserable”-

    You are missing a relationship that wasn’t amazing and in which you were miserable.

    And you are still, six months later, in a relationship with this man, only recently spent the night with him. And still, it isn’t amazing and you are miserable.

    Time for a clean break, isn’t it? Happiness, or well being, is clearly not with him.

    anita

    February 16, 2017 at 5:39 pm #127945
    mouse
    Participant

    He told me he had been speaking to her for a few weeks prior bumping into me, and that changed everything. He said he wanted to work things out and thought that we could make it work, as things with this girl would not develop. it was his idea. However, I just wasn’t sure.. so I guess this is for the best. I feel sick at the thought of him and her but I guess one day I will be happy again.

    February 16, 2017 at 5:40 pm #127947
    mouse
    Participant

    You are so right, I KNOW this and yet we still keep hurting each other. I can only hope now I can move on finally and enjoy my time at uni. I was having a blast until he showed up again and left me confused!

    February 16, 2017 at 8:35 pm #127961
    Anonymous
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    Dear mouse:

    If you don’t reunite with him again; if you leave him in your past, for good, then your confusion will also be in your past.

    Move toward a clearer future, new experiences, new friendships and in time, a new way, way better relationship with a man.

    anita

    February 17, 2017 at 10:52 pm #128167
    Mark
    Participant

    The hurt will get better over time. Hang in there and try and be open to new things. Good luck!

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