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  • July 1, 2013 at 11:14 pm #37744
    Chopin
    Participant

    Hi Paula
    I think you need to get some legal advice, if you can’t afford it there are free community legal services that you could use. Best thing is to take things one step at a time, and put safety and support services in place for yourself. I think some external services and advice would really help you.
    All the best

    July 2, 2013 at 1:46 pm #37803
    Paula
    Participant

    I see well ill work on it since I have already started by moving and changing my phone number. Ok thanks.

    July 2, 2013 at 2:15 pm #37813
    Emily
    Participant

    Dear Paula, i have read your note,
    One. i would get some legal advice.
    Two. I personally wouldn’t bother with the game system, you want, because it is all a control method for him to keep a hold over you to get what he wants.
    Three. Once he is out of the picture, learn to look after yourself.
    Don’t allow this to bring you down or make you feel like a bad person or make you feel low in any shape or form.
    Think about what you want for yourself and begin to do those things, maybe write a list of things you want to do or change or improve on and do them.
    You need to try to find a way to cut him out for good or he will control you and bring you down.
    Love yourself. keep positive and see what advice you can get.

    i hope it goes well, keep posted and if you ever need help or someone to just chat too i am here.

    em

    July 3, 2013 at 9:56 am #37918
    Paula
    Participant

    Yeah that makes since though I have worked hard to get the game system waiting in line for a hour on black Friday this past holiday. But I understand what I have to do and

    let go of this to move on. Its the only way and I have already started but as far as legal matters, I don’t think that’s necessary because he just advise I should go through a

    lawyer. He didn’t fill any paper work out or attend the sessions. This is for the accident that I have been through and a claim that I have filed. He just said one day, “oh I think

    you should call a lawyer for the accident since your insurance is not covering lost wages and rental”. Also he said “the more sessions you attend the more money you’ll get

    out of your settlement”. Now after this later he said you know I should get half right? I’m like what? He says since he helped me stay on it. That’s when we were together but

    now apart it is still the same I want my half or at least some since you said yeah, he tells me. He is looking out for himself and wants what little I have left that is for my

    accident an bills that are passed due.

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