Now my recent ex is determined to claim some of my money from a wreck that i have been in this past May. He states since he has helped me with legal matters that he is

entitled to half or if not that at least some of the money. He constantly calls asking for my anwser and tells me to do the right thing. All his hard work in telling me what i should

do during my recovery and therapy sessions. I tell him i did not have to do any of it but i made the choice to endure the time it took to go through the paper work and constant

therapy. He feels he deserves something from it. Mostly i ignore his calls but this time i answerd one to see if i could get my game system back that he has taken from me.

Now i havent gotten anything back nor am i going to give him anything. Its over between me and him but he figures its his. There is no written document stating that i have to

pay him anything though i have always given him money with nothing in return but some gas in the car. All i want is my game system that i have recently obtain this past

holiday. He tells me he ist’n trying to keep it and has no use for it but i feel he is trying to use that to get to me. I do have a few things of his to put out for him to pick up but i

told him to get it he has to give me my items as well. All he wants is the money I’m about to get from the wreck which he says i owe him. I owe him? I’ve done alot for him and

yet i owe him? I gave him money, bought him clothes, took him out to eat with my grandma, (excuse me) washed his ass(literally) and gave him my untouched body thinking

he was deserving. I messed up but he shouldn’t do this to me after all i have given and done i would at least expect some self evaulation or realization of the things i’ve done

for him. But no he tells me i’m going to piss him off if i dont comply with his demands……wait a mintue i call file harassment charges or just change my number simple as that.

My question: 1. Whats my next step? 2. And if so how have you handle out of control men before in the past?