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  • April 27, 2017 at 8:24 am #146967
    Anonymous
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    Dear Shikhar:

    You wrote: “I do know that I have never put anyone before me (except once and it ended really bad for me).”- can you share about that one time: were you emotionally close (not distant) in that one relationship? What happened and how did it end for you?

    What was and is your relationship with your parents like?

    anita

    April 27, 2017 at 1:05 pm #147023
    Craig
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    Shikhar,

    You’re doing something I rarely see in someone with avoidant behaviors, which is that you seem to be owning them as YOUR issues, and you’re not fundamentally blaming  your partner. That is a really great start! I hope you’ll follow up with Anita’s inquiries.

    Craig

    P.S. If anything, SHE seems a little on the blamey side. If she made a mistake by being with you, then it is up to HER, not you, to fix her mistakes. It is up to YOU to fix YOUR mistakes. Just my opinion, and I could be wrong.

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