tuxbsl,

You are in the combination of a depression stage with confusion thrown in with self actualization. KEEP GOING! KEEP DOING THE WORK! KEEP MOVING FORWARD!
“Generally I feel like I have completed what I was put here to accomplish.”
-A common trap many people who start self actualizing believe. After they have reached their so called enlightenment, they believe that is it. No more work to do. Then they go back to their regular lives and fall back into old habits.
I would suggest staying off social media and continue on your path to self growth. Going on social media to tell everyone about your self actualization is somewhat of a paradox. How the f-ck are you supposed to grow when you are concerned about posting status updates about your development and waiting for approval from others. Whenever you may meet up with friends and they ask you how you are doing, just respond that you are doing well and making a few changes in your life. Keep it simple and basic.
Also if you have not checked out this website, it’s pretty informative:
http://actualized.org/

Thank You and Take Care
-AP85

A quick google search for spiritual loneliness reveals that you are not alone.

Almost all wisdom traditions recognize the conundrum of spiritual awakening and loneliness and even warn that this will be a hurdle along the path for those that practice. It seems that ignorance or unconsciousness is truly bliss.

Seeing the world as it is and saying yes to this world as it is, yes to life as it is, is bitter sweet. Becoming opens the door to compassion, love and even calmness but at the cost of knowing that life must, no will, come at the cost of the sacrifice of life, that learning comes from confrontation with hope and expectation… we seek holding a balance of becoming and acceptance – bitter sweet

You recognize the loneliness of acceptance of the things you cannot change that you see so much clearer.

Ram Dass: There is an intense desire, once you have tasted something as sweet as spiritual awakening, to want to share it with people you love. Sometimes it’s so strong that you get into a proselytizing stance that awakens in them a paranoid defense, because you’re saying to them, “Who you are, just as you are, isn’t enough; if you only knew what I know, or had what I had, you could be happier than you are, and I want that for you.”

After a while, you come to appreciate that what you can offer another human being is to work on yourself to be a statement of what it is you have found in the way you live your life, and one of the things you have found or will find is the ability to appreciate what is, as it is, in equanimity and compassion and love that isn’t conditional; that is, you don’t love a person more because they are happier the way you think they should be.

What you cultivate in yourself is the garden in which they can grow, and you offer your consciousness and the spaciousness to hear it.

I have become an environment that is available, I am living my life in such a way that some people come up to me at an airport, and they say, “You know I’ve been watching you, and there’s some quality about you; could we have a cup of tea?” or something like that, and then I’d know it’s really “out there”; it’s really working; and what I find is that if I just am what I am, when people are ready they will ask, and now I really wait for people to ask. I don’t come on to people, I don’t like to teach where I’m not invited to teach.

The above may be wisdom but it can be loneliness if the desire is to be asked.

You may be interested in reading about the principle of vibration, the law of attraction and the concept of synchronicity. It won’t remove the problem of spiritual loneliness but it does show how a person becoming can influence the lives of those around them in loving ways. It is however another doing by not doing.

Thank you all for this post.