Dear Jack:

Of course, my first thought is that you are pointing a finger at me. A finger is pointed, I think it is at me. Is it? Is it, Jack? Am I a narcissist? Am I pathetic? (shaking uncontrollably)
anita

I was being funny, Jack, trying real hard. Except that the part where I wrote that I think it is me when a finger is pointed with disapproval, that part is true.

Funny Me.

No, I cannot tango. I cannot dance at all, not in a box, not with a fox; not in the rain, not on a train; I cannot tango here or there; hey, I cannot tango anywhere.

P.S. I am going to give you a warning next time I attend to be funny. I have referred to myself as humor challenged for a reason.
anita

(narcissist)-boaster-self aggrandizer-egotist-conceited-self observer-vain.

Not to sure If I’m understanding it fully. Sorry! but my brain works differently when it comes to understanding things.

I feel like from early stages of our lives into adulthood we all are aka pathetic meaning we weren’t just born leaders or with confidence.
We all fall down and get back up till we learn how to be confident or aka narcissist.
From an early age most of us had schooling at a time in our life. Taking orders and obeying teachers good or narcissist because we had to.
I mean even most narcissist have to take orders from egotistic bosses, or husband and wife, mom or dad, etc. so does that make him or her pathetic?
Or worse off because they want to be incontrol?
As people we look up to and idolize many famous people who flat out are controlling, rude, etc. from sports, to music, artist you name it. So to guy on youtube, does that make him and all of us weak pathetic people, because we embrace it!

Symbolism, race, different cultures, states, judges, cops, wars, sports, landmarks, to me are all part of it. Meaning everyone looking down on the other for bragging rights trying to out do the other. World wide..
And yes the guy is a bit right on youtube. Meaning that anyone can fix themselves when they dig deep and seek out wanting to help self!
But we are not put on this planet to be alone, or there would only be one person here.
We are not pathetic because we seek help or want people to listen. Truth is we all want to be heard.. Example That guy on youtube no different than the aka pathetic. Because he’s blah blah blahing about what bugs him with pathetic people. Why because he wants to be heard and needs feedback for his actions to be guided in some way.
Maybe narcissist is just another word for bullying… Not everyone knows how to stand up for themselves! different stokes for different folks!

I agree. You made me think deep!
I don’t think the guy on youtube is wrong, just needs to be worded differently, and more thoughtout! Only because this is a very touch-e subject for people. such as myself.
The (WHO) another song I will have to check out! The only song I know from them is BOB O”Riley. Great song by the way.