Hi Kristie, I am sorry for what you are going through. Is it helpful to remember why you married him in the beginning? Do you want to stay married with him? I believe if you believe in the marriage, and he does too, that you can work something out. Or is there a reason to end the marriage? I am sure it is hard to know. I am single and sometimes have this fantasy that everything will be much better once I get married, but I know that is not the case. I applaud you for trying – anything – just keep trying different things and approaches. I hope more people respond.