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July 28, 2019 at 12:33 am #305265ThonditParticipant
Dear Anita,
You are welcome.
Yes the governor implemented the rule.
Also the woman quarrel to her mother that why do you misleaded to leaved my own son and husband.
Currently i haven’t yet agree with her though she is in dilemma .
July 28, 2019 at 7:54 am #305329AnonymousGuestDear Gregory:
“Gregory has resumed is piloting training now in Nairobi”- congratulations!
My advice to you regarding the latest happenings:
1. Do not have another child with your estranged wife.
2. Do not have her back into your life.
anita
February 14, 2020 at 10:10 pm #338402ThonditParticipantHello everyone at tiny Buddha community. Case is still under my way.
I trust you are keeping well. I’m also fine at the at moment. I’m in Amsterdam at present and the horrible thing come up like nightmare. I can’t imagine and believe that my father in-law would invold himself in the issues of her wife /daughter. I received a phone that he had taken a decision to be on the side of his daughter. This is un acceptable very terrain and weird moment.
I can’t believe that you human capabilities and their limitations are wicky. This unbelievable issues. People say don’t trust anyone. I told him I left your daughter (my wife) last year and I am proceeding with my life. Why again looking for me?
God must crazy, why did he connected with such heartless in my life. This man called Akol (father in law) used to say I will stand with you all the times and I will never CHANGED MY WORDS but now he is the most enemy I ever had. I have never locked my horns with big people but I’m ready to do so. If he is out from his neutralize centerline then I will keep up my head and pull a rope with any of them.
This is people are selfish and self-centered. They have no any test understanding at all.
They all don’t mind about the baby I had between them. I left them everything, I didn’t bother to returns my 150 cows plus some other things. I told them I’m only focusing on my Child and my career but they don’t want me to have peace of mind.
I apologize to everyone who seemed to might have got tired of this the same case since last year.
I know winning is my DNA, and God has plans for me more to deliver to people not only people around me but countless around the world. My ex wife has been going on abusing me with his/her friends on Facebook but I don’t respond any of them. She tried to created some false abuse that my own mother was married to a different man,,,, and eventually she left marry to my dad. Which is absolutely ridiculous and lie.
My mom was married to my dad priod and we are only 5 in numb and my mom passed away. She tell those people that she chat with that she never knew she was married to a wrong onion. Which is me. Many guys are telling her respect the child between but she doesn’t. Should I respond the way she is doing it.??
Any advice is much appreciated.
Gregory.
February 14, 2020 at 10:11 pm #338404ThonditParticipantHello everyone at tiny Buddha community. Case is still under my way.
I trust you are keeping well. I’m also fine at the at moment. I’m in Amsterdam at present and the horrible thing come up like nightmare. I can’t imagine and believe that my father in-law would invold himself in the issues of her wife /daughter. I received a phone that he had taken a decision to be on the side of his daughter. This is un acceptable very terrain and weird moment.
I can’t believe that you human capabilities and their limitations are wicky. This unbelievable issues. People say don’t trust anyone. I told him I left your daughter (my wife) last year and I am proceeding with my life. Why again looking for me?
God must crazy, why did he connected with such heartless in my life. This man called Akol (father in law) used to say I will stand with you all the times and I will never CHANGED MY WORDS but now he is the most enemy I ever had. I have never locked my horns with big people but I’m ready to do so. If he is out from his neutralize centerline then I will keep up my head and pull a rope with any of them.
This is people are selfish and self-centered. They have no any test understanding at all.
They all don’t mind about the baby I had between them. I left them everything, I didn’t bother to returns my 150 cows plus some other things. I told them I’m only focusing on my Child and my career but they don’t want me to have peace of mind.
I apologize to everyone who seemed to might have got tired of this the same case since last year.
I know winning is my DNA, and God has plans for me more to deliver to people not only people around me but countless around the world. My ex wife has been going on abusing me with his/her friends on Facebook but I don’t respond any of them. She tried to created some false abuse that my own mother was married to a different man,,,, and eventually she left marry to my dad. Which is absolutely ridiculous and lie.
My mom was married to my dad priod and we are only 5 in numb and my mom passed away. She tell those people that she chat with that she never knew she was married to a wrong onion. Which is me. Many guys are telling her respect the child between but she doesn’t. Should I respond the way she is doing it.??
Any advice is much appreciated.
Gregory.
February 15, 2020 at 9:47 am #338442AnonymousGuestDear Gregory:
Welcome back to your thread. I am sorry to read that your estranged wife’s father went back on his word to you, and turned against you.
My suggestion is to do all that you can to protect your son from people who are likely to hurt him, do what is right by him. See an attorney in your country, when you are back there, and do what you can legally to protect your son and yourself, and to promote your son’s best interests.
If he is still living away from your estranged wife (and she doesn’t know where he is), and away from you, if he is doing well where he is living, let him stay there. Maybe you can move and live close to him. If he is not doing well where he is at, maybe you can pick him up from there and the two of you move elsewhere, away from your estranged wife and her family.
anita
February 15, 2020 at 5:15 pm #338476ThonditParticipantDear Anita,
Thanks so much from your vital point concerning my prolonged case that has took some couples of years.
I do believe that where there’s a problem, acts of God come in. I wasn’t knowing that they were worst like cancer. My father in law with his family will one day say sorry. I had faced a lots of difficulties things through out my life and I do managed to overcome them.
Yes my son, is doing well Anita, and he is currently live in Uganda – Kampala , ever since last year I took away from them.
I’m also safe and I think nothing will ever happened from our side.
Due to such evil acts of their wrong doing, they never heard where my son is! Neither posted on Facebook.
I know that in the long ran they will be like to look for my son just to see him but never it will happen again.
Anita, I’m taking cared of my only son Agoth, though we stayed separately a part. Due to lives plans. I have the ability and able to challenge them amicably without any shadow of doubt. Soon enough they will run away.
Thanks once again for the supportive advice.
Anyone who will contribute to like Anita, I will be highly honored and appreciative.
Regards.
Gregory
July 7, 2020 at 4:21 am #360899ThonditParticipantUpdate again to everyone in this forum.
My condolences to the family, I had married in years 🔙.
We have been in the mourning time since from the month of June where my father-in-law passed away due to the pandemic and some other diseases which lead to his death. When I heard of his death, I didn’t hesitate at all. I went to their house to comfort them and give them my support since had stood up with me from very beginning.
Thou my father-in-law passed away, things become complicated in his house,,,,,,…..
I tried harder to makes sure I was not bad person as they may think. To the surprised our president Salva Kiir, announced that anyone who has been killed by corona virus should not be taken to his/her village by the plane.
However, they were all devastated on how they will handle the human remained (dead body). To their surprise I wrote a letter to Mr. President, telling him…. Hello my President I understand you had already made your degree that “nobody should be taken again ” but my president,,,,, I’m Gregory, who is a young pilot and work as well in South Sudan Civil Aviation Authority (SSCAA), in aviation industry. Sir would you mind to allow me to take the body of my father-in-law to the village? I’m the one flying the aircraft and I’m ready for the risk, if the corona virus, catch me, let it be.
The good news was that my president granted me to take him his village where he was born, that took a ✈ flight of 3hrs and a drive of 16hours.
Anita and Inky, as well as Jay Jay, I did this because of my son whom I had with their daughter,,,,,, though my mother in-laws was not happy with my estrange wife, who happened to attack me during the funeral day which she end up being beated by his uncle son.
I contributed my money and one bull to be slaughtered.
My father in-laws passed away on 4th of June.
Now at the current state all of my closest famililies in-laws appreciated me for the good thing I did for them.
They all sat down and made a meeting and hence they came out with they decision that I should be given another new girl a part from my estrange wife,,,,,,,, so that she can be the one taking cared of her sister son Christopher Agoth Gregory. Which I told them no no, and I’m okay to myself and I will marry another gal when time come again.
My best wishes,,,,, stay tuned all.
July 7, 2020 at 4:23 am #360901ThonditParticipantUpdate again to everyone in this forum.
My condolences to the family, I had married in years 🔙.
We have been in the mourning time since from the month of June where my father-in-law passed away due to the pandemic and some other diseases which lead to his death. When I heard of his death, I didn’t hesitate at all. I went to their house to comfort them and give them my support since had stood up with me from very beginning.
Thou my father-in-law passed away, things become complicated in his house,,,,,,…..
I tried harder to makes sure I was not bad person as they may think. To the surprised our president Salva Kiir, announced that anyone who has been killed by corona virus should not be taken to his/her village by the plane.
However, they were all devastated on how they will handle the human remained (dead body). To their surprise I wrote a letter to Mr. President, telling him…. Hello my President I understand you had already made your degree that “nobody should be taken again ” but my president,,,,, I’m Gregory, who is a young pilot and work as well in South Sudan Civil Aviation Authority (SSCAA), in aviation industry. Sir would you mind to allow me to take the body of my father-in-law to the village? I’m the one flying the aircraft and I’m ready for the risk, if the corona virus, catch me, let it be.
The good news was that my president granted me to take him his village where he was born, that took a ✈ flight of 3hrs and a drive of 16hours.
Anita and Inky, as well as Jay Jay, I did this because of my son whom I had with their daughter,,,,,, though my mother in-laws was not happy with my estrange wife, who happened to attack me during the funeral day which she end up being beated by his uncle son.
I contributed my money and one bull to be slaughtered.
My father in-laws passed away on 4th of June.
Now at the current state all of my closest famililies in-laws appreciated me for the good thing I did for them.
They all sat down and made a meeting and hence they came out with they decision that I should be given another new girl a part from my estrange wife,,,,,,,, so that she can be the one taking cared of her sister son Christopher Agoth Gregory. Which I told them no no, and I’m okay to myself and I will marry another gal when time come again.
My best wishes,,,,, stay tuned all.
July 7, 2020 at 10:12 am #360929AnonymousGuestDear Gregory:
Good to read from you again; what an amazing story from South Sudan! I am sorry for the death of your father in law. You did an amazing thing in his honor, to fly his body to the village where he was born, even though your estranged wife has been a bad wife and mother. You took the initiative of contacting the president of your country to arrange for your heroic and honorable, difficult and long journey of transferring his body to his village. I am not surprised his family wanted to reward you for what you did. I hope you do marry a good woman next, a woman of your choosing. My best wished for you and for your son.
anita
July 7, 2020 at 3:33 pm #360969ThonditParticipantDear AnitaI’m glad to receive your response with the smile from your face thou I’m not near from you but I can feels the feeling you are in.Yeah it is true as you stated I did the initiative bcoz of the innocent son of mine. As you human beings deep in our hearts, we know that nothing would make us happier than seeing our work done in an embarrassment way from the enemy. So if you ever meet someone that you know would sacrifice the things that matter the most to them in a situation where you ain’t important to them and you are not needed to be with them. They best way you would do to challenge them is to do the good thing for them in a diplomatic way without expecting anything in return.Even when there’s a million reasons to leave sometimes all you need is that one reason to stay (that is our child between us) he is a strong bonding between us but they always wish him to die.I’m not surprised of their devil things that they always practice on daily basis. In relationships, we can all say or do some pretty hurtful things to your partner but I’m not scared or worried of my estranged wife who just go and had sex with some of the boys whom we grew up together and more over I’m older than them and they are not my caliber. Last week I tried to attend clubs for the first time and I got one of the guy who is in the police working as a police man, and he was drunk to the maximum,,,,,,,, to matter the worst he spoken out of his mind because he was drunk showing me the pictures of my estranged wife that he has been sleeping with this girl and to the surprised he saw the photos of my son in the screen of my phone and he said it seem like this baby I saw the picture of him in the phone of my girlfriend and he was not knowing he is talking of my estranged wife.I just pretend not to tell him everything but I kept quiet just saying since he is drunk and I don’t drink than who is he to ME?I said to myself I’m just watching the filming my estranged wife is doing but at the end everything has the “Champion”What is important to remember is when u do the good thing to someone and she is lacking the million reasons to walk away .when things get tough instead of yelling we should be better listeners. So I’m just a listener to them and I’m just enjoying their filming they are doing.Otherwise I would appreciate you for the nice insightful words Anita.My best wishes to you dear.I have a lots to share with you.Cheer.Gregory.July 7, 2020 at 3:35 pm #360970ThonditParticipantDear Anita
I’m glad to receive your response with the smile from your face thou I’m not near from you but I can feels the feeling you are in.Yeah it is true as you stated I did the initiative bcoz of the innocent son of mine. As you human beings deep in our hearts, we know that nothing would make us happier than seeing our work done in an embarrassment way from the enemy. So if you ever meet someone that you know would sacrifice the things that matter the most to them in a situation where you ain’t important to them and you are not needed to be with them. They best way you would do to challenge them is to do the good thing for them in a diplomatic way without expecting anything in return.Even when there’s a million reasons to leave sometimes all you need is that one reason to stay (that is our child between us) he is a strong bonding between us but they always wish him to die.I’m not surprised of their devil things that they always practice on daily basis. In relationships, we can all say or do some pretty hurtful things to your partner but I’m not scared or worried of my estranged wife who just go and had sex with some of the boys whom we grew up together and more over I’m older than them and they are not my caliber. Last week I tried to attend clubs for the first time and I got one of the guy who is in the police working as a police man, and he was drunk to the maximum,,,,,,,, to matter the worst he spoken out of his mind because he was drunk showing me the pictures of my estranged wife that he has been sleeping with this girl and to the surprised he saw the photos of my son in the screen of my phone and he said it seem like this baby I saw the picture of him in the phone of my girlfriend and he was not knowing he is talking of my estranged wife.I just pretend not to tell him everything but I kept quiet just saying since he is drunk and I don’t drink than who is he to ME?I said to myself I’m just watching the filming my estranged wife is doing but at the end everything has the “Champion”What is important to remember is when u do the good thing to someone and she is lacking the million reasons to walk away .when things get tough instead of yelling we should be better listeners. So I’m just a listener to them and I’m just enjoying their filming they are doing.Otherwise I would appreciate you for the nice insightful words Anita.My best wishes to you dear.I have a lots to share with you.Cheer.Gregory.July 7, 2020 at 4:38 pm #360974AnonymousGuestDear Gregory:
“Even when there’s a million reasons to leave, sometimes all you need is that one reason to stay”- how profound, how wise.
I am so sorry, Gregory, that you had the misfortune of getting together with your now estranged wife. Of course, your son is a fortune. But his mother is not, not as long as she behaves the way she does.
I didn’t understand some of what you wrote (the paragraph that includes the word Champion). But I understand enough to know that you are a kind man and a loving father to your son Christopher Agoth Gregory. Good to read from you anytime, and thank you for your good wishes for me.
anita
July 8, 2020 at 1:58 am #360999ThonditParticipantDear Anita,
Thanks for your input.
What I mean by the word “every filming that people might be watching in any TV has always the Championship ”
I was trying to mean that the prostitution that she is doing in the eye of many people will come to an end one day. We shall all see how she will be in future. She jumped from man to man,,,,,,,, when she see that one is old in her eyes than she will resort to other man.
Perhaps she is not ready to settle down with any man on earth. When her father passed away,,,,, she was happily enough bragging that if he passed on, do I cared? Who cares? She said her father is nothing to him and I’m glad that my father passed away because he was a headache to me and my mother.
Suddenly now they are all celebrating the death of her father.
She never mourn about him.
I know very well that ayong will never be in good life thou she is trying to fight with life.
Her father passed away when they where not in peace. However she is being curse by so many people in the family.
Anita, we are always at the right track. And our son is now a grown up man.
What should I do because my son always asked me about her mother.???? But I just tell him your mom is fine. U will get her in future.
All the best Anita.
Be blessed.
July 8, 2020 at 6:51 am #361016AnonymousGuestDear Gregory:
You are welcome. If I was you, given the information you shared here for so long, I would keep my son away from this woman who gave him birth, so that the two don’t meet. I wouldn’t give my son any information about his biological mother being a prostitute etc. I would tell him that she is fine, but I wouldn’t tell him that he “will get her in future”.
Instead, I’d tell him that he is fine and will be fine as is, living with the people he is living with, people who (hopefully!) love him and care for him well. Let him know that he is okay and that he will be okay.
anita
July 8, 2020 at 10:11 am #361029ThonditParticipantDear Anita.
Yin amit that is my language (I mean your are sweet in giving the advice)
You have been standing with me since from day one. I’m changed now because of you. Anita,,,, I will term you in this way that you are “ENGINE ” to everyone whose loved one has been hurt. You are the engine to one Who has been disorder by the group of wrong elementary people like mine.
You are our engine,,,,, to people who has married issues,,,,, and to also who had not married and they are in the pinnacles of marrying their plans one.
Wow to everyone in this forum should give appreciation to Anita, who always give her time tirelessly to contribute and give you the best opts she could to make sure you are comfortable.
Anita, has changed so many people who are confused in marriage,,,,, 😂 😂 our engine.
Let give her this name called Engine,,,, an engine is a small part and can be put in the car,,,, you can’t see but it keep the car moving.
Ohoh yes Anita, I will never disclosed my son to her biological mother,,,,, completely and I told you last time I will never allow this young man to go to her mom. Perhaps I don’t even discuss anything like her mother that she is fine,,,, or she is a prostitute,,,,,,
All this things he will find them by himself by the time he is a mature man.
Anita,, I’m a man enough and I’m capable to keep my son happy and enjoy his own life without thinking of her mother.
All the best.
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