if you were in South Sudan Anita,  I would have give you a gift.  Just for appreciation because in this small community called Tinybuddha , you work tirelessly to advice and respond anyone who is in messed relationships or any other .  To find people like you , is like looking for a golden dust .

Big up dear. Keep climbing the ladder of success.

Haaaahaaa I am a golden dust in South Sudan,  I didn’t know.  But now I have known.  Noticed.

I am always honest person even my wife know in her blood. She once time told me not cheat on her and I agree ✅ with her words.

I have never done anything like lobbying with other girls.

Gregory

Wow,  this is amazing.

With due respect I didn’t know that . ..

I wish my wife could know this website,  to read all this.

If she was a somebody who bother and eager to learnt more she would used this most often .

Gregory.

Dear Anita, 

Yes she is not ready to learnt more as you stated. As per the we where both in Uganda , (studies )there.  She has never be in the best school like I did.

She does not like the School that has too much restrictions with rule and regulations. She only love the school that has freedom for to be going out at any time.

She could attend 5 school in a year. She was given a name ; school walker . She doesn’t care about her performance at the end of the terms when the students are going back home with their reports cards.

I tried to teach her a lot of things but difficult to concentrate or focus.  She only love the place where there are people who love music and free to move.

We are all from the same place, ,,,, we shall be seeing each other.

Thanks Anita.

Gregory.

Dear Anita,

Yes my estrange wife is also in south Sudan here. We are all in juba…. S. Sudan. Both of us are from the same state or province. The difference is ; she grows up in Khartoum,  Sudan, and I grow up in Uganda and Kenya,  plus South Africa as well as Poland. These are they countries I passed through when I was doing my piloting Training.

I am trying to work extra hard,  to achieve my goal and get a better life and I think beautiful one , which is more than her will come automatically.

I have a lots of dreams to do. I think of my only love Son Agoth Gregory , most often.

Once again thanks Anita.

Gregory.

Dear Anita,

Hope you are breathing well.  I have digested all your input in my tough marriage and fortunately , I found myself back to senses.

I realized that as marriage row/normal role ; when a woman begins to cheats on her husband , then she is planning to divorce and wishing her husband to die,  because she has got another man,  she slept with.

If all the characters of the girls where shown on the TV SHOW , then people could have not married.

Dear Anita,

Haha thanks for this beautiful message , how you frame your words is awesome and electrified the heart of the other person. You are superb genius Anita,

Yes,  this woman had run out of short education.  When she is happy maybe she is at the middle of her friends whom they are dancing with the loudest Music.  Nothing makes her more comfortable with other than friends and music.  She once told me she need a speaker to be in her house so that she can be dancing within.

Yes,  Anita,  all the point you had said are fact and truth.  I am totally different from her,  her way of thinking and ways of doing things is  is perpendicular to angle of attacks in flying the airborne.  I have had got various education in my signals and I was the one educating myself not even a uncle or relative. My brain took me to those places.  My father is not educated , is just a farmer. And still k used to go back to look after my cattle because that is where my knowledge start.  I have to work extra hard to over come her negative thinking that I will not progress a head if she is not in my life.  I have to prove her wrong.  I will achieve my target and my amazing goal of become a Captain in command (PIC) or call it Pilot in command , and my son Agoth Gregory,  will be my first officer.

Hey Anita,  wonders will never end,  I got a surprise call today by my young brother in-law telling me they are in a dire situation,  and the owner of the house need it by the end of this month. And her father said since you refused  me to listen to me and stay with the husband that I had given to you and you listened to the advice of your mother ,, ,,, then handle your things  alone….. I am not your father.  Go to any boy friend you are targeting  to pay the money the rent of new house.

My father in-laws is definitely standing with me.

What would I do  to my younger brother in laws and uncle to my son.  He is still in primary school.

Ayong,  will never fit to my shoes and I guess she is assuming that she will get a man who will provide them everything. No one will ever makes a suicide to go for such a greedy woman,  with her mother.

They all tried to look for a new house to rent,  but in vain, ,,,,, they are all expensive.

Anita , oyeee.

You are my role model and my monitor as well as my guidance.

Thanks.

Gregory