Dear Anita,

Thanks for sharing every steps of the story here. You an uncomparable woman.

Humans are  unique in that we’re the only animals that can conceptualize and think about ourselves abstractly.  Dogs don’t sit around and worry about their career. Cats don’t think about their past mistakes or wonder what would have happen if they’d done something differently.  Monkeys don’t argue over future possibilities,  just as fish don’t sit around wondering if other fish would like them more if they had longer fins.
As humans,  we’re blessed with ability to Imagine ourselves in hypothetical situations, to contemplate both the past and the future, to Imagine other realities or situations where things might be different.

My wife is one of those women who spend a lot of time in front of the mirror.  She loves to look amazing,  and I love fir her to look amazing too (obviously).
Nights be4 we go out, she comes out of the bathroom after an hour- long makeup / hair/clothes/whatever- women- do – in- there session and asks me how she looks. She’s usually gorgeous.  Every once in a while, though,  she looks bad. Maybe she tried to do something new with her hair.

Men stereotypically lie in this situation to make their gf/wives happy.  But I don’t. why? Because honesty in my relationship is more important to me than feeling good all the time.  The last person I should ever to censor myself with is the woman I love.

Fortunately,  I’m married to a woman who agrees and is willing to hear my uncensored thoughts.   She calls me out on my bullshit too, of course,  which is one of the most important traits she offers me as a partner. Sometimes we had little misunderstanding,  little disagreement and agree.

Without conflict,  there can be no trust.  Conflict exists to show us who is there for us unconditionally and who is just there for the benefits.  No one trusts a yes- man.

I step from rock to rock, climbing steadily,  leg muscles stretching and aching.  But at least I got the sober woman to be with. The sky gets wide and deep when u encounter with wrong heartless one.

There’s a saying in Portuguese: Ele  dobra  o cabo  da Boa Esperança.  It means,  ” He’s rounding the Cape of Good  Hope.” Ironically,  it means that the person’s life is in its final phase,  that he’s incapable accomplishing anything more
Anita,  in life 50% of the time things don’t your ways and when they don’t,  don’t get work up (big strength in life).

I will continue to teach others men to be good father and caring husband.

God bless you.

Greg

Dear Anita,

Thanks for your input.  Every step you shared with me give me courage and learn more.  Yes, if there’s any possibility where I could help to transform the young couples I’m ready to offered my ideas. As well as my wife will definitely play her role to give best to their opposite sex.  I have learnt a lots from so many elders how take cares of your wife and it is a collective ideas from well mannered parents.

I love the well mannered and educated Captains of Aviation pilots.

The success of a child is the blessing from both parents. Most of they children don’t acknowledged this ideas. My mom used to prayed for us and she stated I feels Gregory,  will one day fly people with his aircraft and Now I do!!

Its important to every child to have a blessing from both parents.. one day When people ask Capt Maranga, what he does for a living, he replies “I fly airplanes and write about them. He has so many books he wrote like “License to Fly”. And I’m one of the most fortunate people in the world to have been able to make a career of doing what I love.” Capt Peter maranga,  has been a pilot for more than  45 years, an aviation writer for more than 40 and has been lucky enough to get to fly just about every type of personal and business airplane in production from the 1950s onward. He was on the Flying Magazine staff for 25 years and editor-in-chief for 20 of those years. He holds several business jet type ratings  and he has been flying B787,  B747,  B763, B777, direct to New York, and  has logged more than 60,000 hours. they instructor retired last year from flying and he has remained as an aviation industry chief- pilots. Captain Maranga,  was the God fearing pilot, he has flow with his son Emmanuel Several occasions.  He was the first person who introduced me in flying school. He trained me. He advised me,  handle this little bird called airplane like handling a married woman,  when u don’t treated her well she becomes very stubborn. An aircraft is as the same as a woman. When u don’t give attention, he tell you wonders.

I love and give respect to any ladies in the world.

God bless you Anita.

Greg

Dear Anita,

Thank you for being at the shore of ideas when I need you, then you are there to offered.  Either if once is glancing for your contribution you are there too,,,,, to give whatever,  he request for!!!

Yes, soon my son Thondit (Agoth) is gonna fly with me as Maranga did to his son Emmanuel.

Maranga,  introduced me into so many things in life. He put me into flying school and he took to me further born again  church,  where I was appointed as leader in the choirs for 3 years.

I remembered the time we flow together with his son Emmanuel and a father,  as well as family friend (me) from Nairobi to Kigali back to Nairobi.  You can check it on his fb peter maranga.  Where he was interviewed while I was on the jam sit. Maranga is a kindred hearted man like Anita,  who help a lots of people with so many traumas , you devoted your advised free of charge.

Soon or nor later my son will be in the cockpit with me. As you have seen already.

He knows the word go around when we are landing and we happen to spot another aircraft in our TCAS.

In the moment of silence God be with you. And hence CAN U PROVIDE ME your EMAIL ADDRESS.

Dear Anita.

Thanks for the soft reply.  I wish you happy all the times.

I never regret being put at the hard side but its always gave me a strength.

I’m requesting you to climb to fly level 080ft higher but unfortunately you are descending to fly level 100ft I see and hear request report to 5miles Emami 🙉😆😆🤔

With this be blessed.

Greg.

Dear Anita,

How are you doing today?

Sorry I had a long flight today. I did get time to respond you back.  Men work harder to bring the food on the table.  The same hard work my estranged wife left me in, never inclined at all.  We will see who will be who in the future.

Though sometimes, Isn’t it funny how the people that hurt you the most, tend to react a different way when the table gets turned?. There’s a popular saying that goes “If you can’t eat it, then don’t serve it”. Don’t hurt someone and expect them to worship the ground you walk on because the world certainly doesn’t revolve around you. Just imagine sometimes I don’t like or a fun of revenge in my life. I got that sympathy to treated once that hurt me. I leave everything to God himself to judge it.

Gregory.