Dear Gregory:

You are welcome. I am sad to read that you are feeling badly. I wish there was a way for you to never again be in contact with the hyenas you mentioned. I once watched a nature movie about hyenas and I can’t forget the scene I watched: how one hyena made the unfortunate mistake of finding himself in the territory of a different group of hyenas. The latter chased that one hyena mercilessly, biting his behind so badly, that the poor hyena’s intestines exited his body and he was left to  die.

Will it help if you divorce your estranged wife… anything you can do to no longer be in contact with hyenas?

anita

Dear Gregory:

You are welcome and blessings back to you. You are in a men’s conference about women like your estranged wife? How interesting, I wonder what that’s about…

anita

Dear Gregory:

Actually, there is a Wikipedia entry on “Prostitution in South Sudan”, it reads:

“Since independence from Sudan in July 2011, prostitution has expanded considerably, mainly due to an influx of prostitutes from nearby African countries. In the capital, Juba, the number of prostitutes rose from a few thousand at the time of independence to an estimated 10,000 in 2014.

“Juba has a large percentage of foreign residents including aid workers and UN personnel. Many of these are single men, or married men living away from home. Their relative wealth has attracted women and girls from within Sudan and also from Kenya, Congo, Uganda, and Khartoum (the capital of Sudan)…

“Due to long periods of war, HIV prevention campaigns have lagged behind other African countries. Data about HIV in the country is sparse, but estimates of HIV prevalence are 2.6% amongst adults and 21% amongst sex workers, although UNAIDS (The Joint United Nations Program on HIV and AIDS) warn this may increase to an epidemic within 10 years if the issue is not addressed adequately. Lack of awareness, shortage of condoms, clients’ reluctance to use condoms, when available, and limited access to healthcare are all factors in the spread of HIV amongst sex workers and their clients…

“South Sudanese girls are subjected to sex trafficking in restaurants, hotels, and brothels in urban centers… South Sudanese and foreign business owners recruit men and women from regional countries.. as well as South Sudanese women and children, with fraudulent offers of employment opportunities in hotels, restaurants, and construction; many are subjected to sex trafficking. Authorities occasionally assisted traffickers in crossing international borders, and some South Sudanese officials purchased sex from child trafficking victims, facilitated child sex trafficking, or protected establishments that exploited victims in the sex trade..”

Human evil.. Is it this bad in Juba: do you see lots of prostitutes on the streets of Juba every day? How young are some of them, and your estranged wife.. is she still prostituting in hotels.. and what is her reasons to prostitute?

anita

Dear Gregory:

I am very sad that this is the situation in Juba, that some of the girls/ women are prostitutes because they really do lack money for necessities, and others- because they want to open Boutiques or make their mothers happy- like your estranged wife. What I read earlier today and from what you shared, it is a terrible situation. A situation which is made possible by corrupt politicians and .. corrupt individuals who are interested in the prostitution and those who participate in it personally- shame on them all, oh, how I wish such corruption and evil did not exist!

I will google the song you mentioned tomorrow, when I am back to the computer, in about 14 hours from now, and will be back to your thread. Good to read from you, Gregory. I am glad that you are a good man.

anita

Dear Gregory:

Wikipedia says that Ngot Peter Mou Athuai, known as Slate Nation, is a songwriter and artist. He was born in Thiet, a suburb of Tonj State in South Sudan. He lives in Australia, if I understand correctly.

I watched “Dinka Culture music video by Slate Nation”- I enjoyed the music, and was very impressed by the physical beauty and energy of the young people in the video. I also watched “INU- Slate Nation Ft. H.E President Salva Kiir Mayagdit”- a dance video that was premiered July 11, 2020 (only 16 days ago), and I very much enjoyed the dancing, the thought that went through my mind as I watched the performers was: wow, what beautiful people they are!

I didn’t understand the words other than “We need peace”, said in English. I found a video with the lyrics, but not in English. “Tokh ier keh ciem, Ku Yin maan keh loi” is one of the lines. This must be the Dinka language, spoken by the Dinka people, the major ethnic group of South Sudan. I wish I understood the words.

“Majority of the people have the intention of sleeping with the beautiful girls/ women.. which makes it difficult for a girl to listen to her parents because she has got power of getting money somewhere”- it is sad that these beautiful women (and they are!) sell their bodies for sex, and that men buy the use of their bodies. It is degrading to the women and their customers are selfish and cruel. And it is very sad, that this activity spreads Aids in Juba/ South Sudan.

“We have a dream of changing things in South Sudan”- I sure hope that things will change for the better.

“what do you think can be the best solution to this mess up?”- do you mean, the best solution to the mess up with your estranged wife?

If  so, you shared that she is pretty much a bad person, and so is her mother, and the two make an evil team. As such, I imagine best for you to divorce her and to have nothing to do with her and with her mother, like I suggested before.

anita