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  • March 26, 2014 at 9:09 am #53566
    Stripes
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    Did something happen to you as a child? Maybe issues with your parents? I’ve found that issues with my parents has affected my adulthood and I’ve tried reconciling with that. Perhaps dealing directly with the source of the pain can help resolve your issues.

    March 26, 2014 at 9:42 am #53570
    shewolf
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    Hi

    not that I can remember.. they are in a good marriage, and I got everything I needed for school ect.. Even now they still help and support me and my sister. I do have the feeling I’m constantly searching the aprovel of my father, however I don’t know why.. He treaths my sister and me the same.
    He is a very introvert person but when it comes to it he’ll always be helping us. He raised us as boys so that we are very indepented women.

    So I don’t think the problem lies with my parents.

    I’ve been told that I’m a HSP (high sensitive person?).. I pick up other peoples emotions like nothing.. so when someone is sad, instantly i go sad to, without even knowing when it happens..; it’s kinda hard to explain this feeling…

    Like i’ve got borderline, but I don’t.

    March 30, 2014 at 5:45 am #53803
    Sage
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    Meditate. Go out into nature, do fun things with your partner and live. No thinking

    April 8, 2014 at 6:18 am #54474
    doubledragon
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    Hi, shewolf! I’m new to the site. I agree with Sage, above: meditation would be a good practice for you. Also working a lot with your self-esteem. You don’t have to compare yourself to anyone. You are who you are: not better nor worse than anyone.
    The past is over and no matter how often you revisit it, you’ll never be able to change it. We all have a past but if you can only look back in order to feel guilty, then it is useless baggage. Focus on the present. You have every reason to be happy with your new boyfriend, especially if you’ve gone so far as to decide to get married.
    Above all, don’t overthink things. Go out more, hang out with all sorts of people, do interesting things. Personally, I find the less I center myself on myself, the best things work for me.

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