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  • December 12, 2019 at 9:41 am #327265
    Radha
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    Hi Lluvia,
    From your post above, I can understand that you are very desperate to have your mom and your man in life, but this will not be easy as you and your boyfriend had many break ups which created a kind of fear in your mother’s heart.
    But again, likes, dislikes, opinions on people will change with time. You and your boyfriend have to make believe your mother that you became perfect for each other.

    Then automatically things will settle down. Have patience and certainly there will be happy endings.

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    December 12, 2019 at 10:45 am #327285
    Anonymous
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    Dear Lluvia:

    You wrote: “my mother does not approve of our relationship because of the times that either one of us has ran away”-

    -but she ran away too. In your previous thread last year you wrote: “When I was 2-3 my mother abandoned me .. and I didn’t have a relationship with her again until I was 7-8”

    This is heavy duty running, a mother running away/ abandoning her small child for five whole years.

    Did she ever deal with her own running away, sincerely apologize to you, made amends to you, or tried to… ? Maybe if she did, if she dealt with the running away of a mother from her own young child, she would be more forgiving of your boyfriend, a young man, running away from you at times, as you did your own running away from him.

    anita

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