Single too long - can't find anybody

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November 18, 2014 at 12:33 pm #68060

Crystal
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I got divorced 10 years ago. I was in relationships sometimes but none worked out. Now I’ve been looking for my partner, but I can’t find anybody. Since I have been alone and waiting so long, I feel sad sometimes.

I’ve worked on myself, so I no longer feels flaws in me or codependent. I acquired many hobbies and tried to enjoy being single. But this waiting period is sometimes depressing.

November 18, 2014 at 8:35 pm #68082

pc8116
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Crystal, I recognize similar feelings and I share your sorrow. I’m proud of how you’ve made an effort to find the whole you, to accept yourself in this time and this space. The ebb and flow of being lonely at its lowest can bruise the spirit. I’m not sure of your social activities, but can only suggest you start perhaps by moving out and about town with groups of people. Someone’s bound to notice your smile, your sense of humor, your perfume, you. Perhaps meetup.com with it’s many, many activities will have a group or two that includes mixed male/female settings — from book reviews to painting and bring your own wine. I’m sending you a virtual hug and wishing you the very best. Think of your new year and your new life starting — right now.

November 19, 2014 at 2:37 am #68107

Victor Odhiambo
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I have been single for 4 years now.I don’t why. But every time a girl tries to get close to me i feel as if she can cheat on me. I don’t trust them nowadays.Some of them are too pretty and i just feel they might take me for a fool and reject me. They might not accept me for whom i am. Some even might reject me because they might get an impression that i am lost in life. I don’t know why this is happening.What i don’t want is try to be like someone else. I just want them to accept me for who i am. Even if i don’t have money. All i want in this life is be happy and be at peace with myself. I don’t want them to be attracted to m,e because i am good looking. I just want them to accept me for who i am. Wish i could find someone i can trust with my life.Why am saying this is because i have been betrayed by my loved ones and i can’t trust anyone anymore.

November 22, 2014 at 5:12 pm #68258

BenzRabbit
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Hi Crystal,

I understand the feeling and it can be overwhelming at times but don’t you give up now !

The night is darkest before dawn !!

Just be yourself and go about doing what makes you happy….when you least expect it the right person will come along.

You are closer than you know.

God bless !

December 9, 2014 at 11:30 am #68976

Miracle88
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Hi Crystal,
I feel that with anything in life the more you run after something the harder it becomes. Sometimes you just have to let go of the anxiety about it and let life happens. That doesn’t mean you stop looking for the right person, it just means you let go of the fear and anxiety and wondering when things will happen. Things will happen at the right time. Have faith. Love yourself and be positive and good things will come your way.

I wish you the very best.

Regards,
Miracle88
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