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October 19, 2014 at 10:58 pm #66496
ClaireParticipantI have lived in Australia for the last eight years I came to Australia after I felt I needed a new start. Since being in Australia I have had a child. I have been a single parent now for nearly 5 years…
The short time ago well approximately year ago I wrote down a set of goals and ambitions but I would like to achieve one of them being to meet someone.
The universe gave me that one person however I have known this person for a very very very long time and he lives in England
My life here in Australia is amazing I love where I live I have just been offered a job in the field I trained in… Which is amazing in itself as there is no work here where I live in the industry that I work in.
I had made the decision to go home be with the man that I love and spend time with my family and relaunch my career back in England
Then through fear alone my partner decided to end the relationship
This was very short lived, and he now wants me to return to England to that we can never lives together
This little hiccup was enough for me to start doubting my decision to move back to England
Now my feelings for this man I true he’s the man that I asked for however he lives in a different country
He’s coming to Australia to spend some time with me and then I have to think about what is best for me to do whether to stay in Australia or to move back to England
The decision does not only affect me it also affects my daughter and her father who is willing to follow us to England so that we can spend time there
I miss my family and my friends in England but I do not miss the country
I have been soul-searching for a good few months now on what to do and I was hoping for some words of wisdom from you all to help me my journey
A big thank you in advanceOctober 25, 2014 at 11:28 am #66770
SteveParticipantHi Clare,
Glad you’re loving it here in Australia.
However, your decision will have to be yours. You’re the only one who has an understanding of all the issues and priorities involved.
Having said that, I would recommend that you don’t worry too much about the decision itself. Whatever you decide will be the right decision…for the times.
Once you make the decision, go with it and deal with any hiccups that may arise during the journey. Whatever happens, you will be a stronger and wiser person as a result of it.October 25, 2014 at 5:18 pm #66772
maderaParticipantTHE WISEST THING WOULD BE TO STAY FOR THE SAKE OF YOUR CHILD.
bringing a new man into the life of a 5 year old is not easy for the child.
You love where you are. YOU COULD BE MAKING A BIG MISTAKE for the child..
Put your child first. SPEAKING FROM MY AND OTHERS EXPERIENCES.
louiseOctober 26, 2014 at 9:07 am #66794
AnonymousInactiveLook , Your boyfriend will understand your problem . But For the sake of the child , ask the child what she wants . Does she like England (from atleast what she has seen and heard ) and does she want to go there ? If yes , then go . I Am sure it wont he hard to adjust to a new place . THE PROBLEM IS YOU HAVE BEEN LIVING IN AUSTRALIA FOR A LONG TIME AND HAVE ADJUSTED TO THAT PLACE . SO IT IS JUST INITIAL DIFFICULTY TO CHANGE YOUR LIFE QUICKLY . But Since you and your boyfriend are head to heels in love with each other , I dont think You will even have time to notice the change . 🙂 The main thing to notice here Is that you will loose contact with your bestest buddies in Australia And the same thing goes for Your child too . Ask if she ‘s comfortable with staying away from her friends for a short Time . All these are the utmost You can do .
I Hope You will have some good news .
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