Hi Clare,

Glad you’re loving it here in Australia.
However, your decision will have to be yours. You’re the only one who has an understanding of all the issues and priorities involved.
Having said that, I would recommend that you don’t worry too much about the decision itself. Whatever you decide will be the right decision…for the times.
Once you make the decision, go with it and deal with any hiccups that may arise during the journey. Whatever happens, you will be a stronger and wiser person as a result of it.

Look , Your boyfriend will understand your problem . But For the sake of the child , ask the child what she wants . Does she like England (from atleast what she has seen and heard ) and does she want to go there ? If yes , then go . I Am sure it wont he hard to adjust to a new place . THE PROBLEM IS YOU HAVE BEEN LIVING IN AUSTRALIA FOR A LONG TIME AND HAVE ADJUSTED TO THAT PLACE . SO IT IS JUST INITIAL DIFFICULTY TO CHANGE YOUR LIFE QUICKLY . But Since you and your boyfriend are head to heels in love with each other , I dont think You will even have time to notice the change . 🙂 The main thing to notice here Is that you will loose contact with your bestest buddies in Australia And the same thing goes for Your child too . Ask if she ‘s comfortable with staying away from her friends for a short Time . All these are the utmost You can do .

I Hope You will have some good news .