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  • March 23, 2017 at 2:26 pm #141391
    Craig
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    Hi Susana, it sounds kind of messy to me – two people who seem to be attracted to and like one another, but who keep pushing each other away.

    My first thought concerns your idea “I never really say things directly because I always want to be sure about the other person before giving a step forward.” Regardless of how he responds, YOU might feel empowered if you worked on speaking more directly, to him, and to others.

    My second thought is that regrets are really, really unpleasant. So when possible, I try to make decisions so that I won’t look back with regret.

    What do you think you’ll do?

    March 23, 2017 at 3:04 pm #141397
    susana
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    I really don’t know what I will do. But for sure you are right I will feel empowered if I speak directly to anyone.

    Perhaps I should move on and work on myself, probably I will never in relationships…

    March 23, 2017 at 4:58 pm #141401
    Craig
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    Susana, may I share a different opinion?

    I think for anything “relational,” that is, having to do with interacting with others, the PERFECT place to work on your skills is in relationships. This is just how I see it, and it may be different for you.

    March 23, 2017 at 7:58 pm #141425
    Anonymous
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    Dear Susana:

    If you don’t tell him your thoughts and feelings, including your doubts, how will he know?

    And if you want to know what he thinks and feels, ask him simple questions.

    Exchange Information: without information there is confusion. Based on honest information given and received, you will be able to make informed choices, and so will he.

    anita

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