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Should I let go completely or still hold on to possible friendship?

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  • March 20, 2015 at 10:01 am #74193
    Will
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    Either party in a relationship always has the power to end it. If someone doesn’t want to be in a relationship with you, there is nothing you can do.

    It sounds like this relationship, whether platonic or otherwise, isn’t working for her, but she’s having trouble giving you a definitive sign. Do the both of you a favour, and forget her. You’ll get over her quicker if you just don’t see her at all, and your heart will open to the next person, who may love you in return.

    March 20, 2015 at 11:14 am #74198
    RC
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    I agree with Will. It’s time to move on and let her go. It might be helpful now to think about what you want. Do you want a friend or a partner? Do you really want to be with her after all of this or be friends with her after all this? I want you to be with someone who is super stoked to be with you, I want you to have a friend who is stoked to be your friend! I think her actions have represented what she wants. And who knows, maybe one day you will be friends but even without knowing you I think a kind, supportive, honest and open friend will be much more fulfilling and uplifting for you.

    March 20, 2015 at 10:49 pm #74208
    Ian Ting
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    Thank you for the advice. I am actually unsure of whether I can still be friends with her but I know deep down I keep expecting her to talk to me. On the other hand, I know everything will definitely be different between us. The connection we once had is already gone. How I wished it all did not happen. I keep imagining how different it would be and it is saddening. Her “we will be friends again” could mean years down the road right? I hope I will stop worrying soon. I shall follow Will’s advice and move on.

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